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No, I don't think that is what people are saying necessarily, I think people are just concerned that your good intentions might not be fully appreciated and that you will end up getting hurt. However, we obviously don't know this guy - what it's like when the two of you are together and what's going through the head of this girl who tbh sounds like a very selfish person. People are only making guesses based on the information you have provided.
What I would say is that it's important to think about what it means to be a good friend. Why not have a look at this article on how to be a good mate and think not only from your own point of view, but also about this guy's (Is he treating you as you deserve to be treated?) to try and make a sound judgement on whether or not there is a future for you as friends.
Take care, and I hope things work out for you.