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Ever found yourself really fancying someone's inner self, like their voice, the way they talk, what they say, their mind, personality, sense of humor, etc
BUT
You just don't fancy them at all on the outside? Their hair, their loks, their build, etc?
If so what happened?
There's someone I've been intouch with lately such a nice person on the inside but on the outside just don't fancy them ..
BUT
You just don't fancy them at all on the outside? Their hair, their loks, their build, etc?
If so what happened?
There's someone I've been intouch with lately such a nice person on the inside but on the outside just don't fancy them ..
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Once I got to know him though, I started to have feelings for him and it was afterwards that I started to fancy him - and I mean, really fancy him.
This didn't happen until about 3 weeks after we got together, and now I love everything about him, including his looks.
Kind of goes to prove that you don't have to fancy someone to fall for them.
tho' i think really to make a go of it with someone there has to be more than just a nice sounding voice...
Totally agree. When i first met my boyfriend i didn't really find him attractive, but once i got to know him i really began to think the opposite and now i think he's totally gorgeous.
However in your case its different as you already know the guy and still feel no attraction. Is he attracted to you?
Maybe because us girls are much better looking than all the boys out there
Strange thing is, the girl i'm in love with, the girl i can barely talk without making a fool out of myself, isn't as attractive as many i know. She still is though and if she wasn't, i'm pretty sure i wouldn't feel the same.
She was nice looking, but there was so much more about her. I think I fell for her personality, the way she spoke and just the way she was with me, it's so hard to explain. The fact that she was nice looking was just a bonus.
She was such a special person and I'm still to this day don't really talk about her, because the time we spent together was so special. I haven't had a relationship like that since really, and I think there really was a deep bond there.
Ending it is the single biggest regret I've got, but I think it's because it was based on a lot more than me thinking she was proper fit.
That probably had nothing to do with anything, but oh well.