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your perfect night out?
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Ok, im planning a great night out with my girlfriend, well actually thats where u come in, i want her to be romanced and in the mood for some lovin! how???
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All my life what I had mistaken for friendly pats on the back were really the hands that pushed me further and further down.
Just done a banging shit. Won't flush. You might have to push it down
Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
well dont make it look as if this is your aim or it wont go down well! (ooops excuse the pun)
maybe get her a little something, i dunno, chocs (i recommend thorntons <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> )or flowers are always nice, if a little cliched, just a little gift of some sort. is it an anniversary or anything, or just a special night out for the sake of it? (in a good way!!)..
do something that you know she enjoys, something that you might not enjoy so much so she knows you're making the effort to make her have a good time. i dunno, going to see a chick flick perhaps.. only as part of it, do something else afterwards, like a walk in the park, a drink somewhere nice and quiet and secluded where youre not gonna meet anyone you know to distract you.. have a talk to her about how much she means to you and maybe talk about some of the things you like about the relationship and about her. dont mention any bad stuff, theres a time and a place for everything <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
the candle thing is a good idea, if you ARE gonna be getting jiggy candlelight is a lot more romantic and softer, and not as embarrassing for either of you than harsh electric light, until you get to know each other in that way better! maybe a drink of wine when you get home? if you do something other than watching a film when you go out, maybe you could rent a film you know she likes/will like and watch it by candlelight snuggled up on your bed or on a sofa or something, so she can eat her chocs and drink the wine <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
something like that, maybe some combination of bits of that, and hopefully you'll both have a great time <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> not forgetting that if shes not ready shes not ready, and romantic nights arent going to make it any different, you just have to respect her decision. which im sure you know <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> whether you end up sleeping together at the end or not, it will still mean a lot to her that you go to all the effort of planning a special night out.
Burn baby burn!
"getting jiggy?" u a closet fresh prince fan gfm? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
my romantic evening is san francisco themed. candlelit dinner on my roof deck... view of the bay, coit tower, transamerica building.. awesome view. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
then we take a ride on the cable car to union square and the theater district. after checking out the show of the moment... we have dessert at one of the fine dining establishments in the area. then an evening stroll among the late night crowd in the area.
afterwards, if this is going to be part of the evening... i'd already have my bed covered in rose petals and dozens of candles lit all around.
the rest comes naturally <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
dude, i'll even rent you my house. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
those are MY rose petals and MY candles and im SO not sharing <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">
too right im going to lecture you! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">
if you have to "get" her into bed, then she's obviously not ready or willing. Can't you be a little more considerate to her feelings? I'm sure she'll do it when she wants to!
There's a girl in my mirror
I wonder who she is
Sometimes I think I know her
Sometimes I really wish I did
Emma, me thinks he was joking. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> he's just being a guy, leave him alone! *protects chris from the evil lecturign females*
Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
There's a girl in my mirror
I wonder who she is
Sometimes I think I know her
Sometimes I really wish I did
1. Get her drunk
2. Get her laid
3. Get her a taxi
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If at first you don't succeed, destroy all evidence that you tried.
*get a shhhhhlap*
Never put off to tomorrow what you can avoid altogether.
Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
Forget step 3. You want her in the morning.
You cant beat sex in the morning <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Just done a banging shit. Won't flush. You might have to push it down
drunken sex is no fun either. u never remember anything.
if you even get that far when you're drunk... good old brewer's droop <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">
Never put off to tomorrow what you can avoid altogether.