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Changeable boyf- tolerance?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
hey,
well i've been with my boyf for about 5 months now, and it normally is really great, we tell each other that we love them, we have a really good relationship with no actual sex, but we do get pretty close... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
normally all this is fine, and great, and he makes me really happy.

the problem is that if he gets tired or something, he suddenly changes on me, and blanks me. if i kiss him or whatever, he won't stop me, but he just looks bored, and tries to find an excuse to go into another room or something.

Last night that happened, and i went off with some of my friends and started crying, and when i came back it was really obvious that i had, and he was then reallly nice to me, and i sat on his lap, and he hugged me. but then when i got home he replied to my texts in a really cold way, without saying 'love from' or 'xxx' or anything that would be considered affectionate.

afterwards though its always alright, and the other day he sent me an e-mail thanking me for my tolerance of him when he got tired and gave the wrong impression. so now i don't know what to do, what do you guys think?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    He should make more of an effort, even when he is tired, but saying that, if any of you lot met me on my way to work or jst after I'd got up you'd think I was the biggest wanker on the planet, and u'd prolly be right.
    When people are tired the brain starts to prioritise tasks a lot more, and decides how much attention to pay to any particular thing, and in this case it may be you, which is a shitty thing to say I know. But it seems like he is a decent bloke, like any other he gets tired once in a while.
    one last thing, in ur post in sex u think u maybe pregnant, how is this possibl if u say u havent slept with ur bf, hmm I smell a rat.
    Anyway, hpe this helps
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Whowhere:
    one last thing, in ur post in sex u think u maybe pregnant, how is this possibl if u say u havent slept with ur bf, hmm I smell a rat.

    Have a read of my post Whowhere: http://www.thesite.org/ubb/Forum1/HTML/000709.html
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanks wildchild, honestly, i haven't slept with anyone, i am a virgin! but after reading wildchild's post, and seeing a previous magazine article, i just worried, prob unecessarily.

    Cara
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Duh, I just realised after I made the post, my friend went through the same thing come to think of it, sorry,
    but Cara, you didnt comment on the advice I gave you!
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