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How can u be too nice ?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
One thing that has always puzzled me is when girls say that you are to nice to go out with. is there such a state as being to nice ? or are they just using the term as an excuse to say no with out hurting your feelings ?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    a lot of guys i know are 'too nice'

    i get on with them, they say all the right things etc but when it comes down to it i dont really like them in that way,

    i like being friends with them but i couldnt have a relationship with them even though they are lovely, its just the thing that they ARE nice, but sometimes theyre not the one for you.

    some girls use it as an excuse to let you down gently but not all,

    my current boyfriend and i are happy but he isnt an angel and i think thats part of what makes us good together, i dont think hes nice, i dont think hes bad, i just love him and know i wanna be with him.

    girls can like you but sometimes theres just something missing. i think thats when ur too nice.

    Why am I even trying?
    I'm crying out, I'm crying out
    I cannot seem to keep from freaking out
    Spinny round, spinny round, I've fallen down
    I cannot seem to keep from freaking out

    [This message has been edited by Spirit fs (edited 27-11-2001).]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Girls never like a lad to say yes to everthing and thats what the girls mean when they say ur to nice.

    I'm not the dominant type but if i think she's out of order then i will bloody tell her not just keep quiet like some blokes.

    Dont be fearful that ur gonna lose someone cus u disagre with them and ur scared that if u tell them they will run a mile, cus if they do they anit the one for you
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    they may be saying it to be polite or u may just be too nice dont try too hard and girls will be falling at ur feet...hopefully!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Women seem to like the type of men that batter them black and blue. I'm far too nice, always a gentleman, never use a closed fist (always an open hand for less bruising), and it gets me fu*king nowhere!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Captain Kirk:
    Women seem to like the type of men that batter them black and blue. I'm far too nice, always a gentleman, never use a closed fist (always an open hand for less bruising), and it gets me fu*king nowhere!

    after reading this im not surprised
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Spirit fs:
    after reading this im not surprised

    I think he was joking... I hope he was joking.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I must admit, I like a rough n risky man <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; I once dated this guy and he said he loved me every 30 seconds, like a robot and kept talking about when he would join the army and tell all the soilders about his "beautiful woman" at home. Well, sorry but that made me wanna barf. I'm young! He was scaring me with ideas of a "house wify" future! lol! Not really me; I wanna have fun!
    So, to all u too nice guys out there, don't abuse the word "love" it means a lot, say it only at the most intimate times!! and be a bit adventurous, there's nothing worse then a guy who's boring and takes after their sexist, lazy grampa. However, don't be a complete spineless p**** and cheat or abuse ur woman; try to find a balance between good and bad and switch those two sides on and off according to the situation. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Treat the girl well but be a bad boy in bed. They cant complain about being dull then <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

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