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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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I just told a boy on msn that I've liked him for a while. So proud! I was crapping myself but thought 'fook it'. Plus even if he didn't like me back I knew we'd still be good friends...But...He likes me back! He kept a badge I gave him ages ago too. :D fabarooney

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Rachael wrote:
    I just told a boy on msn that I've liked him for a while. So proud! I was crapping myself but thought 'fook it'. Plus even if he didn't like me back I knew we'd still be good friends...But...He likes me back! He kept a badge I gave him ages ago too. :D fabarooney


    Awww thats great! :love:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    woot. thats lovely
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Rachael wrote:
    I just told a boy on msn that I've liked him for a while. So proud! I was crapping myself but thought 'fook it'. Plus even if he didn't like me back I knew we'd still be good friends...But...He likes me back! He kept a badge I gave him ages ago too. :D fabarooney

    you know what kind of messages I get from girls? "I liked you way back then... you were a idiot for not asking me out."

    'fook it', to put it in your words.
    I wish more girls were assertive like you.

    I give you a Strubb's thumb up, and that's the highest award on the internet out there.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You go girl.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    StrubbleS wrote:
    you know what kind of messages I get from girls? "I liked you way back then... you were a idiot for not asking me out."

    'fook it', to put it in your words.
    I wish more girls were assertive like you.

    I give you a Strubb's thumb up, and that's the highest award on the internet out there.

    Thankyou!! Plus I've never done anything like that before :nervous:

    Edit: I think the real decider was chatting on webcam last night and he stuck some bluetack up his nose to cheer me up. Awh
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Rachael wrote:
    Thankyou!! Plus I've never done anything like that before :nervous:

    Edit: I think the real decider was chatting on webcam last night and he stuck some bluetack up his nose to cheer me up. Awh


    Aww I love happy threads like this...:heart:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Gone were the days when people done this sort of stuff face to face. The Net isn't doing any good for young people's confidence.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Rachael wrote:
    Plus even if he didn't like me back I knew we'd still be good friends

    You weren't worried at all that it might mess things up? I always worry about that possibility.

    Go you, anyway, great result! :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mmm, smug mode :cool: . Congratulations!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Always worth the plung :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yayyy for the braveness :D I did the same about 2 years ago.... now I'm in a grump because he's hogging the bed as I'm trying to type though.....

    But yayy well done babe! And best of luck with the continuing it ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    wildchild wrote:
    You weren't worried at all that it might mess things up? I always worry about that possibility.

    Go you, anyway, great result! :D

    Yup of course I was. But if we were as good friends as I supposed then he wouldn't hate me for telling him if he didn't feel the same way.

    Thanks :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Rachael wrote:
    Yup of course I was. But if we were as good friends as I supposed then he wouldn't hate me for telling him if he didn't feel the same way.

    Thanks :)

    Yep thats precisly it. IF you're such good friends, neither would hate the other despite revealing such deeper feelings.

    Well done to you though Rachael :D :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    aww well done!! ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Rachael wrote:
    I just told a boy on msn that I've liked him for a while. So proud! I was crapping myself but thought 'fook it'. Plus even if he didn't like me back I knew we'd still be good friends...But...He likes me back! He kept a badge I gave him ages ago too. :D fabarooney

    That is awesome. More girls should do stuff like that. This is the 21st century - why should the boys always make the move?!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nice. :thumb:

    It definately pays off--just realised this myself, when I had to find the courage to ask a girl out in a seemingly impossible situation. The rush I get from being with her is incredible!

    I usually reflect what would happen if I'd never taken the initiative. Seize the day! Take the great leap! How love can take away any sorrow... is just amazing.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Awww you lucky sod :p
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    **helen****helen** Deactivated Posts: 9,235 Supreme Poster
    Makoto wrote:
    Gone were the days when people done this sort of stuff face to face. The Net isn't doing any good for young people's confidence.

    :chin: Or people just did it on the phone - that's what I did before the internet - or wrote letters.

    Nice one rach :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LeicesterLuke wrote:
    That is awesome. More girls should do stuff like that. This is the 21st century - why should the boys always make the move?!

    What makes you think that it's always men that make the moves?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    way to go!
    hope you 2 are happy together.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ahh I went to his :) It was fabb. He's so cool. Really huggy but I like that. Ahh and cute. He showed me his skydiving video. Adrenelin junkie!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sofie wrote:
    What makes you think that it's always men that make the moves?

    experience.

    to me and through observation.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sofie wrote:
    What makes you think that it's always men that make the moves?

    Just talking through my own experience. It's the way i've always known it with me and everybody else I know. If you've done different, then great. No offence meant.
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