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Virgin @ 28
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I am male 28 years old, straight but still a virgin. I masturbate frequently and enjoy it but I am still single and feel there something wrong with me because I have not experienced intercourse with a partner yet but I have had offers of sex in the past but stupidly rejected them should I now get laid or wait until I get married?
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Personally i don't think there is any rush nor should you feel pressurised to have sex.
As many will say wait until the right time comes and when you feel ready and that way you will not regret it.
Nothing is wrong with you at all and if you want to wait until you are married then good for you
It seems as if there isn't any time between 'get laid right now' and your marriage vows. In the length of time between right now and finding a wife, you could find someone you'll want to sleep with, in a relaxed boyfriend/girlfriend situation.
It's not a question of 'rush it' or 'hold off forever until death us do part' - there's a hell of a long time between the two to find someone.
sometimes its a long wait but it does happen..
are you really good at 'it' too. life's so unfair!
no worries pal, you're probably looking in the wrong places. get a haircut and start snapping your fingers
i live with 3 x virings at 40.. they're not looking either, so they'll probably never experience touch like that. try changing your attitude? maybe see touch as essential in the long term for good health and emotional comfort/satisfaction.
Someone didn't read the post, huh?
"I have had offers of sex in the past but stupidly rejected them"
He's had offers, he's turned them down, he's wondering if that was a bad decision. Not asking 'Like, how do I pick up chicks? Huh huh!'.