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i think its over???
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ok this will probably make no sense to u lot what so ever, but PLEASE TRY AND HELP ME.
on saturday night, me bf came over 2 sleep, my bro wanted jamie to help him wit summot on the computer. i was just watching telly, they sorted out the prob and jamie just sat on the comp with steve (my bro -12) 4 about 1 1/2 hours, and left me sat in my room.
i had asked him to come in my room and he just kept saying "in a min" so i got his jacket and threw it out of my door, unknown to me his mobile was in the pocket and temporerily broke! with out me knowing he told my bro he was going 4 walk and may or may not be back.
after about 1/2 hour my bro told me, i ran all the way to the bus stop and looked round all the streets, he dont live near me.
i kept trying his mobile and left tons of msgs.
i was crying and i was really worried i even rang his mum and asked her if he had gone home (so now she was worried) afer 2 bloody hours he came back to my house. i just hugged him, again hew went back on the comp wit y bro. yes i know i sound really jelous but i am!
ne ways we both went to bed and on sunday morning everything seemed ok. we got up got ready and got the bus into town.
he kept looking in al the shop doors where he knew girls who he used to go 2 school with worked, and really and i mean really obviously waving, throughout the day he was just trying his best to irritate me. and in the end i stormed off - did he follow me? did he bollox. he went andgot on his bus. i went and got on it too but i dint sit with him. he then dilliberatly got off 2 stops after the 1 he was ment to, and left me standing in the street, he then started having a go and i was crying.
we went back to his house andhad a bit of a row, but then we just had tea and went to a few pubs in town. i had told him it was over and had give him back my engagment ring. but throughout the night i got off with him loads, when we got bck to his we were shagging and he kept asking me about my fanticies and if i would have a 3some, not asking , asking just out of curiosity. i just pushed him away and went to sleep. this morning we were ok and i told him i loved him, and he said the same.
i just dunno if he wants a relationship or mates or seeing eachother or what??
oh god! i feel a bit better 4 getting that out u dont need to reply.
love jo-lizzie xx
[This message has been edited by jolizzie11 (edited 23-04-2001).]
on saturday night, me bf came over 2 sleep, my bro wanted jamie to help him wit summot on the computer. i was just watching telly, they sorted out the prob and jamie just sat on the comp with steve (my bro -12) 4 about 1 1/2 hours, and left me sat in my room.
i had asked him to come in my room and he just kept saying "in a min" so i got his jacket and threw it out of my door, unknown to me his mobile was in the pocket and temporerily broke! with out me knowing he told my bro he was going 4 walk and may or may not be back.
after about 1/2 hour my bro told me, i ran all the way to the bus stop and looked round all the streets, he dont live near me.
i kept trying his mobile and left tons of msgs.
i was crying and i was really worried i even rang his mum and asked her if he had gone home (so now she was worried) afer 2 bloody hours he came back to my house. i just hugged him, again hew went back on the comp wit y bro. yes i know i sound really jelous but i am!
ne ways we both went to bed and on sunday morning everything seemed ok. we got up got ready and got the bus into town.
he kept looking in al the shop doors where he knew girls who he used to go 2 school with worked, and really and i mean really obviously waving, throughout the day he was just trying his best to irritate me. and in the end i stormed off - did he follow me? did he bollox. he went andgot on his bus. i went and got on it too but i dint sit with him. he then dilliberatly got off 2 stops after the 1 he was ment to, and left me standing in the street, he then started having a go and i was crying.
we went back to his house andhad a bit of a row, but then we just had tea and went to a few pubs in town. i had told him it was over and had give him back my engagment ring. but throughout the night i got off with him loads, when we got bck to his we were shagging and he kept asking me about my fanticies and if i would have a 3some, not asking , asking just out of curiosity. i just pushed him away and went to sleep. this morning we were ok and i told him i loved him, and he said the same.
i just dunno if he wants a relationship or mates or seeing eachother or what??
oh god! i feel a bit better 4 getting that out u dont need to reply.
love jo-lizzie xx
[This message has been edited by jolizzie11 (edited 23-04-2001).]
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U seem 2 b a carin & kind & i think u can do betta than him blieve me i know people who have been thru the exact same things & the min they get out of the relationship tjhey feel alot betta.
Gud luck in woteva u choose 2do
luv Rachel
If u have a good soul u can make sum1 happy!! If u can make sum1 happy ure a good person & a good friend!
he has changed over the past few months (so have i) i had been arguing with my mum b4 he pissed off wit my bro, and i said sorry 4 breaking his fone, n he did say sorry 4 going out for 2 hrs n not phoning.
i think its 50/50 we both play up to eachother, i love him so much and i really wanna be wit him but i dont just wanna keep arguing and splitting up, but even when we do split we still hold hands n kiss n stuff, i cant help it it just dont feel right other wise.
i make my feelings clear but he just thinks i have an attitude.
do u know he called me self centred yesterday! i couldnt belive it, i relise i lose my temper loads wit people but i was bullied really bad when i was younger and i think alot of my behavior stems from that. if u get tret like shit ur gonna treat others like shit. right???
ne way get back 2 me people!
Erm, Im not getting at u, this is just a piece of advice. It seems like a lot of the topics you start have been worded deliberately in communication to your bf. Instead of doing this, you may find it more constructive to actually talk to him, i dont mean texting, i mean sitting down and having a proper conversation with him, you may find that it will help better than leaving messages for him on here.
If u have a good soul u can make sum1 happy!! If u can make sum1 happy ure a good person & a good friend!
whowhere, i try 2 talk 2 him, buthe dont seem 2 listen, also by writing things down i can get more of my feelings out.
i hope i have helped you here its all i can think of really!
There's a girl in my mirror
I wonder who she is
Sometimes I think I know her
Sometimes I really wish I did
Can you seriously see yourself carrying on like this for the rest of your life? If not, you may as well end it now. You can't stay engaged to the guy he used to be, he's obviously not that person anymore.
Take it from me (a serial fiancée) you may well have loved each other unconditionally when you got engaged, but something is definately not right now. Sure, we all have our ups & downs, but if the base line is one of anxiety & uncertainty, then it's better to quit now, rather than carry on in your unhappy state for years & even get married before you eventually split up.
You deserve to be happy & feel loved, think about it & do what you want. You are the most important person in your life.
j9
um I don't know what to say I mean well
I think u guys are scared to have an all out fight. a total big yelling fight (if thats the only way u can get him to lesten then do it like that) because u might lose each other,I don't know u might end up breaking up.
but I do know that the thing your doing know pretending your ok ( for ex: when your still mad cause he never said sorry) I'm not trying to break anybody up If anything I would really like to see that u guys make it, but I know pretending that everythings ok when it's the total oppisite is going to be the end of u guys
sorry if I seem mean about this it's just happend to me so many times
I'm like a bird I'll only fly away. I don't know where my home is, I don't know where my soul is.
i thing we r just gonna have 2 sit down and really have it out wit eachother, u know tell eachother wot each of us feel is wrong. and try to work things out but i suppose if that dont work we will have 2 call it a day.
jo-lizzie
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~ If you can see the beauty of whatyou aspire to, it doesn't matter if you achieve it all. Simply to aspire is no mean achievement ~
luka, we kinda have had a trial break but it dont work cos we just wanna be togetjher and when we r 2 gether we cant stop kissing and well i think u can guess the rest!
but i am gonna sit him down and have a good ol chat wit him 2night.
ill keep u informed! jolizzie