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Asking girls out

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I'm 17 and have never had a girlfriend depite having plenty of male and female friends. I've only ever asked about 4 girls out and I still don't know what the best way is of doing it. Please help cos I know I'd make someone a great boyfriend

[This message has been edited by Zero (edited 23-04-2001).]

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Be yourself. Dont use any dodgy chat up lines, dont pretend to be someone you aren't. Find a girl who's like for you is based on your merits and nothing else.

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok heres sum do's & dont's 4askin girls out (well this is wot i look 4 neway)
    DONTS:-
    dont ask her in front of yours or her mates get her alone
    dont try 2 b sumthin your not 2 try 2 impress her
    Dont assume a girl will say yes & never bragg about askin her out
    Dont worry if she does say no u can stil b friends wiv her u wont die if u get turned down

    DO'S:-
    Do b yourself
    do ask her 2 her face(never ask a gal out over the fone or thru a txt msg!!)
    do b honest wiv her
    do make sure u have spent sumtime wiv her in the past even just passin by sayin hello (theres nuthin more a girl h8s wen a total stranga comes up 2 u&asks u out i mean whos goin 2 say yes 2 a total stranga!!)
    do RELAX try 2 stay calm if u worry ull just get toungue tied & get embarassed

    I WISH U THE BEST LUCK IN THE WORLD & IM SURE ULL FIND A GIRL THAT DESERVES U
    GOOD LUCK CHUCK EVEN THOUGH IM SURE U WONT NEED IT!!
    LUV
    Rachel <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;


    If u have a good soul u can make sum1 happy!! If u can make sum1 happy ure a good person & a good friend!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    One thing i think is important for me is that you don't just say...Will you go out with me? How young r u?

    the thing is you have to get her alone...chat like normal then just bite the bullet and go... Do you fancy going out sometime??? then specify a date....

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Tigerlilly:
    Do ask her 2 her face(never ask a gal out over the fone or thru a txt msg!!)

    Hey tigerlilly, don`t dis TXT msging as an asking out medium.
    I asked my gf over SMS, mostly cos its easier and I have trouble saying stuff like that to people.
    It works.


    "Honesty is just an excuse for lack of imagination."
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    grrrrrrrrrr
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The way I start "going out" with someone is after we've dated for a while, we just know. I don't like the whole "Will you be my girlfriend?" thing. It's better just to go on a date, or something.
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