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You find out that he's a virgin, how do you react?
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as the title says basically. to but it simply i am 21 and a virgin. i'm not really that bothered about it, as most guys would be, but it does concern that i may one day have to tell my girlfriend (if i had one!).
when would be a good time tell? early on? certainly before you actually have sex though, yes?
i'm really confused about this one, let me know your thoughts, and thanks so much in advance.
when would be a good time tell? early on? certainly before you actually have sex though, yes?
i'm really confused about this one, let me know your thoughts, and thanks so much in advance.
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Indeed.
I'd say certainly before you have sex, but not on the first date or anything like that.
And I agree with Lipsy; I'd be secretly pleased that I'm taking his virginity!
I'd deflower him,and do it good!
I'd like to teach him the ways of a woman!
Don't tell her too soon but do tell her before sex, so she can give you a helping hand!
If you let her know you're a virgin, she can play teacher - and that's always fun
We were going at it for a bit and she said something along the lines of 'ooo i can tell you've done this before' and i was like 'erm..no actually'
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My other half was a virgin when I met him, and it was never a big deal. Although for the record, if he hadn't have told me, I wouldn't have known. To be honest most blokes these days have watched porn prior to popping their cherry, so they're going to know what to do.
dont tell too early dont tell too late, as long as youre not bothered she shouldnt be
and it would be great fun to teach an untainted man what women like..
plus in a sort of feminist, independant-women new-generation sort of way it would be a very liberating feeling taking a mans virginity!
Definitely not something unique to inexperienced men, by the way.
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Most girls I know prefer it- you have no previous, which means you don't persevere with a crap technique because your ex loved it. They can teach you to do them just how they want- sounds ideal to me.
*giggles* the night and i luvs me! *blush*
haha yeah!
i wudnt mind - its might be a nice feeling actually he chose me to loose it to - if we were in a realtionship lol
and yeah jut because ur a virgin doesnt mean ur gna b bad at it, mayb at first a little uncertain and nervous, but not for long