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general information please? and don't laugh at what may seem stupid. how do you get in position to give your guy a handjob? I'm quite inexperienced, and the furthest i've got is just a bit of fumbling when we make out, but i cant seem to get the angle right so i cant really get a good rhythm going. I'm usually on top of him, or lying next to him. Blowjobs are the same, although i think im ok with that because he generally gets in position himself so its easy. I'm learning to master them. any tips?
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If you are down on him and he is sat in a chair or standing and your on your knees, face on, both hands feels good to me. And that way can lead to a good blowjob!
#Hand jobs and blow jobs and whiskers on kittens ........#
good hand job positions are you lying on your back and he on all for above you (it's great for the guy since he lets loose on you), or just lying besides him in bed. he on his back, you on your side, facing him.
handjobs work best if you have his willy in a somewhat "natural position" and not straight vertical up.
blowjobs work best if you are between his legs (d'oh!), or if he is sitting.
actually, there is no right and no wrong, it can't be that hard to find a good position for you and your fella... try things out.
Handjobs, I can never be arsed doing them. Whats the point?
Roger all of that.
Sitting in a chair is best because it eliminates the possibility of him collapsing like a deckchair due to your most excellent blowjob skillz
The problem with blowjobs is although they feel amazing, they're so impersonal, you can't cuddle
Handjobs, the only variant is the guy on his side and the girl on her back, cos then he can cum on her tummy .
i kinda kneel beside the man on his back, facing his feet, and do it that way.
It seems to go down well, he gets a good arse view, and i get a fondling at the same time!!
Give the boy a hand
Giving him good head
you could easily commence 69'in then...
I wouldn't know... A friend told me about it once and I read about it, but that's about it.
It doesn't seem to be a bad concept tho...
well, imagine 100% is everything one can do.
So if both are giving ~75%, than you have a sex-percentage of 150!!
which is mathematically seen....
ughh... I dunno.. maybe you are right.
I think it's an enjoyable position for a while, but I find it's rare if one of you gets off on it... let alone both. Reason being I suppose that you're a bit, er, distracted I suppose. You're right sophia, nobody is doing their best work unless their concentration is rock solid.
But yes, 69's are fun!
Not all the time, and I agree, sometimes its hard to concentrate, so i dont even try and concentrate too much till ive got mine usually.
Dont think to much about it, talk about it what he likes and doesnt like like playing with his balls or licking around the head or whatever!
Its meant be a sheard experience so relax enjoy it have fun and talk about what each likes or dislikes. We'll always give ourselves a better handjob to Bj's are so much better!
i love this saying.
And I give the boy hand lying next to him. Head by him lying down and me just crawling down next to him.
nah, i prefer to be giving my entire attention to him :thumb:
Would rather take turns and do the job properly. Taking turns is fun.
:yes:
Nobody can tug me off better than me. Obviously blow jobs are bit trickier, and so to save breaking your neck a woman is required.
as for handjobs, i just do it lying to his right as i am right handed, me on side and him on his back, it is good to let him do it see how he lies it, or he can just tell u as ur doing it - like learning on the job! lol
and ive always done it with his dick at a right angle to his body? has any1 else found it easier with it in the natural position then?
So a 69 would be pointless for me. I'd be concentrating on how good it feels and forget I'm meant to be doing it too!