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BF wants to find biological father
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My boyfriend wants to find his father, but I'm not entirely sure that would be a good idea. Until a few years ago, my boyfriend didn't even know that he was still alive and from the way he talks about his dad sometimes, it sounds like he slightly blames him for stuff now and then. Plus, I find it weird that she never had him put on the birth certificate and she gave him her lat name. Those actions really don't mean anything, but I'm just worried that he's going to find something he didn't want to find. He does have his dad's social security card (not sure how that happened...) so he could probably find him.
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he doesn't even have to have anything to do with him if he doesn't want to
It might turn out fine.
I say so what ..
Better to find out who the guy is, maybe meet him then leave it until it's too late and he's 6 feet under and never have the chance.
Plus, I shortened 'boyfriend' down to 'BF' for the sake of keeping the title short. No where in the actual post do I use text speak.
Well, I talked to him today about it and he said that he doesn't really want to find him because he hopes that his father is dead.