Home Sex & Relationships
If you need urgent support, call 999 or go to your nearest A&E. To contact our Crisis Messenger (open 24/7) text THEMIX to 85258.

pain!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I Need Help, Ive Been Having Sex With My Bf For About 3 Months But Mostly Every Weekend Cos Were Long Distiant, Well I Hurt When He Put His Penis In Me And Most Of The Time Were Having Sex, Sometimes I Have To Stop. Then After I Hurt For Couple Days And I Sting Went I Wee....What Is Up With Me? :(

Comments

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not sure where to start with this one. Are you using contraception?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, Im On The Pill And Use A Comdon Too.
    Like His My Frist Person To Have Sex With I Fought It Cos It Is My Frist Few Times But If It Was It Would Been Gone By Now.
  • smitherzsmitherz Posts: 968 Part of The Mix Family
    TBH it can be a number of things, and im sure most people on this board will tell you to see your GP.

    Only solution to be properly diagnosed
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it took me a few times before it didn't hurt. You shouldn't be stinging when you pee really.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Okay Cheers, Well Thanks For Listing :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What do you mean you mean by "hurt for a couple of days"? Can you describe the pain at all?

    My initial reaction would be that you might have cystitis, but then it depends where and what type of pain it is. Either way, if you don't already then I recommend always going for a piddle as soon after sex as possible. You should see your GP if it persists, no one wants annoying after-pains ruining their sex life ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its Like Around The Entrance Of The Vangina And Its A Sore Pain And Sometimes Stings.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    try a bit of lube. (water based)

    Hooray for lube!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *does a dance for lube*
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sounds like cystitis to me, but the only way to find out is to go to the doctor.

    Oh, and please don't write in caps lock, its very rude. So rude, in fact, that you'll note this board prevents you from doing so.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hello My Name Is Rich

    Ah just wanted to test that out Kermit :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well No Way, I Hadn't Notice That.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I Knew It, I Knew It!!!!11!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well my first instinct was maybe a urine infection as your pee stings, and this can effect sex too cant it? but it could be cystitis.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its probably because youre only 12
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks for helping,
    cant help typing with caps becasue that how i type most the time!
    and iam not 12!
  • **helen****helen** Deactivated Posts: 9,235 Supreme Poster
    Blah wrote:
    try a bit of lube. (water based)

    Hooray for lube!

    :yes: not a bad idea.

    We know you're not 12 wattsey :) Kermit and SCC often get over-excited when someone uses text talk or capitals. We're still waiting to celebrate their 13th birthdays. ;)

    ETA: you might also find TheSite's article on painful sex helpful.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    **Helen** wrote:
    We know you're not 12 wattsey :) Kermit and SCC often get over-excited when someone uses text talk or capitals. We're still waiting to celebrate their 13th birthdays. ;)
    They're just two old farts, anyway. :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I may be old and deaf, but there's no need to shout.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    **Helen** wrote:
    We're still waiting to celebrate their 13th birthdays. ;)

    .

    :hyper: :birthday: :hyper:

    I want a pony!

    layout.jpg
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh pony like a pony weeeeeee
Sign In or Register to comment.