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What would you think....
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Paranoia got the better of me! u cant be too careful!
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Not sure if that makes sense, but i tried.
One wants to be up and about travelling the world, seeing and doing things
while the other wants a stable homely life. Unless one or the other is willing to give up on what they want out of their future, it's perhaps best they split to find someone who has the same life goals as each other. I hope these people stay friends however
I know I was only messing about. I haven't got a clue what goes on in women's heads. Complicated creatures like.
she did not love him enough? Where are you so sure she really loves and fancies him?
If she loves and fancies me I damn sure expect answers, she should tell him!
I think you got your answer here!
The desire to change the place were you live can be mightily big. I am a one step before that. I need to travel as much as possible and I wish to live in another country anytime I finished uni,....
My friend is even more drastic. We wanted to go to sweden, but EVERY SINGLE hostel was already assigned. I said it's stupid if we fly now for a expensive flight and then stay in an hotel or so (he honestly wanted to sleep in parks etc. crazy fella). I said "forget it... let's fly next year and book already in march so the flight will cost us a total of ~20€ and the hostels around ~25€ a night."
What did he do? He really wanted to fly - alone, without me - and went to the travel agency again. turned out they made a mistake and the flight was even more expensive (~360€).
I can totally understand to give up everything, be it family, partner, friends, familiar environment for a 'brand new life'.
read my edited post, after i finished reading the thread.