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How to fuck a virgin?
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Im seeing this girl whos a virgin and she wants to lose it with me. Can anyone suggest the best way to go about it to minimise pain and maximise pleasure? Apart from health issues, is it better to use a condom, lubricant wise, or is it less painful, less abrassive to do without? I intend to give her a lengthy foreplay and oral to ease any anxiety. Should i make her orgasm with oral first, then go into penetration, or should i leave the orgasm with the latter? Any more tips would be helpful. Thanks.
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Take it slow, treat her with respect, listen to what she's saying, and let her know that if she needs to stop it's ok.
I'd ask her if she wants to use a condom or not, but if you've had a few sexual partners it might be an idea to get yourself tested before you have sex without one.
It does feel nicer without a condom, and I'm glad I lost mine without a condom, but you need to play safe.
change ur attitude for starters
dont FUCK her, make love/have sex with her
and yes, there is a difference b4 u ask...
as for condoms - ask her if she wants to use them. if she doesnt then i presume she is on the pill and that you have been tested.
condoms can dry a girl out though and are just horrible in general so if you do use them make sure you have some lube ready.
What on earth are you on about?
a virgin usually doesnt wanna be FUCKED, they wanna be made love to
i didnt think my post was that hard to understand?
lol i didn't want to be made love to.
but i think saying 'fuck a virgin' is a bit crude. how to have sex with would be nicer!
This dude is from phillipines, probably doesnt have the best grasp of english...
kermit is the one who said it. he's not from the phillipines. :razz:
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and use plenty of lube
What has that got to do with his grasp of the English language?
my first time, i wanted it slow, i didnt wanna be fucked
fair play to u tho
Put your claws away, mate, I wasn't having a go at you.
yeh but did you really want them to 'make love to you'?
having a fuck doesn't mean it has to be hard and fast.
i wanted my 1st time to be special
to me, a fuck is meaningless sex
I thought that's what you were wittering on about. Talk about imbecilic.
Do you know this virgin personally? Maybe they want a good hard fuck, I know I did.
I really wish you'd change that signature too- not only does another poster already have that as their title (and they are infinitely more intelligent than yourself), it's unbelievably tacky.
Do it on a swing. Take a run up and ram it in. Best way of doing it tbh.:yes:
Eugh you got done with a strap on your first time? Kinky bastard!
how do u know they are more intelligent? what do you know about me? not a lot
i presume ur a bloke, in which case, for ur 1st time, a fuck may be great however as a female virgin I wanted it a bit softer as it tends to hurt!
i have seen a few of ur posts and you seem to have a huge chip on ur shoulder
i dont think ur reply was called for, just because you have a different opinion to me, doesnt give u the right to more or less imply that i`m thick