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boyfriend's birthday and a STRIPPER HELP
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In closing, he's with YOU, not the stripper who is perhaps on her fifth performance that night. He's going to have a bit of fun, then he's probably never going to see her ever again. He will continue to see YOU, kiss YOU and sleep with YOU.
I was going to post that, just decided not to though.
Lol, took me ages to find it though - I really should of just used the search button
What's he gonna do, bone her? He wishes.
Have your mates take you to male stripper on your birthday?
Honestly I think you just need chill bit. More you think about it more upset you'll get. Going to strippers is overrated i reckon but being with your mates drinking and telling filthy stories is great laugh.
However, I do think if it bothers you that much he would do well to respect your feelings a bit more.
I dont have any idea what you can do about it though. It sounds like hes gonna go anyway.
I kind of agree, but at the same time, why should he pander to her hysterics?
I'm not suggesting total pandering, but if this is genuinely upsetting her, there has to be some kind of compromise, and they should at least try to respect each other's feelings. There doesn't seem to be a lot of that going on on either side here.
Eh, ya know me, I just being silly
You asked if you were overreacting, and I said you were.
*shrug*
Don't ask questions you don't want the answer to.
Glad you've sorted it out. Yes, there should be compromise, but that works on both sides.
headfucking would have been for her to say "yeah u go, i`m cool with that" then ignore him for weeks or ended it because he upset her
and not all lads resort to sleeping with other women when their gf is bein a pain (Which i dont believe she was)
not havin a go, just wonderin...
wtf? She's just not happy about her boyfriend having a stripper. If a someone gets fed up with their partner then the solution isn't to start sleeping around behind their back. :rolleyes: Seriously, i don't think she's the one particuarly over reacting here.
i wouldnt want a clothed girl dancing on my fella, never mind a naked one who is gettin paid for it!