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Hairy chicks
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like chicks with leg just like a blokes! Some fellas get off on it, do you?
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anyway, I was saying- ooh you mean like specifically look out for hairy women- well, wouldn't be my first criteria, but to each his own.
How stupid of me not to know that!
I did not say I was fricken disgusted, but I said it does not specifically turn me on, and that's the OP question.
I don't see the problem with it to be honest; but like all these things it's just down to personal taste.
Hey whats with the harshness. she only said her opinion.
And I like to be smooth.... tons of hair GROSS!! I only have hair on my head and my arms lol
While you're very much entitled to your opinion on body hair; I think it's a bit sad that you find the body's natural state (being covered completely in hair of a variety of coarsness with the exception of palms of hands and soles of feet) to be "gross". It mightn't be your cup of tea or the way you feel most comfortable but it is most certainly the way nature intended you.
The flip side of that statement could be "taking a blade, putrid chemical creams and sheets of wax to your body in the name of smoothness and the status quo? GROSS". Also, why are hairy arms ok but not hairy legs? Funny, that.
I was thinking the same, I know theres been some times that "a friend"
I proudly sported a pair of shorts at the gym with at least a weeks worth of groth last friday. I doubt anybody even looked.
And guess what, I still got sex that night. Hairy mammoth-like sex. And it was good, and he didn't even get a rug/hair burn.
Its a main factor, like we could go on to argue, we were not made to wear clothes so why wear them?
It's a bit of a different issue in the context of this thread because it's not specific to women in the way that a discussion on "hairy chicks" is; males and females wear clothes and this is "the norm".
I did actually shave my arms once *silly moo* i had pale skin when i was younger and have dark hair so i felt embarrassed but i constantly have a tan (natural tan) all year round know so its not noticable
i was just talkin about how hairy i let my legs get thats all!
as for wearing clothes, it is considered normal now to wear clothes, if you saw someone in the street completely naked you wouldn't consider it normal would you? So i wouldnt be comfortable going naked while everyone was wearing clothes, however if clothes were never invented and it was normaly to be naked and had never been anything different then everyone would do it and it would be just as embarrassing as showing your arms nowdays!! (not embarrassing at all)
like hundreds of years ago, there weren't all these gillete razors and veet creams around, women must have had hairy legs and ladygardens and they were still seen as sexual, attractive beings.
speaking as someone who has a daily battle with hair removal - legs, underarms cos my hair is so dark - it can get a bit depressing, and i was talking to my fella about it the other day, he said that it would take some getting used to if i decided not to shave it and he wasn't sure how he'd feel. he said it wouldn't stop him loving me at all, but that it wouldn't be as attractive to him. ultimately, i don't think i'll be chucking out my razor...lol
there was a programme on C5 a while ago about 'hairy women' and there was this guy on there who actively sought out very hirsute women - and he said the hairier they were the better...
guess it's each to their own really...
I shave my arms. I don't do it as often as I do my legs, but every 3 weeks or so. I don't mind having some hair there (like there is now) but when it gets longer I got irritated with it. I personally am not bothered what anyone else does with it.
I must admit, when we're growing our hair for treatments at college though (like now :grump: ) I do get annoyed with it. The urge to shave my legs this morning was painful. BUt they'll only stick needles in me anyway so I might as well leave it and actually get a benefit form having it done.
The only actual benefit I think we [largely speaking about women, of course] get from shaving - and by this I mean other than feeling that we fit some stereotype of hairless wonderwoman - is that in armpit shaving we reduce the likelihood of body odour. Everyone says it's natural to be hairy because it is natural to be hairy; in that we're hairy in our natural state. It may have become 'second nature' to the modern woman in our society to whip away every stubbly hair to appear on their legs/underarm/bikini line but you can't really argue that it's "natural" because, by definition, it isn't.
I do wonder if the overwhelming majority of men are put off by body hair, like if they were confronted with a woman they found attractive but who didn't remove hair where it would be expected. Were I free and single I think I might have set myself a little challenge along those lines... would be interesting, to say the least!
I sorely wish I'd never started shaving my legs; I have a friend who has never touched her leg hair and it's very fine and barely noticable unless you're up close and personal. Damn that school peer pressure to buy sparkly pink razors at lunchtime!
Sometimes its just a way of fitting in - much easier to make a stand and do something like that if youre already beautiful and have got some to spare if you know what i mean.
I see what you mean. I guess it's like the playground mentality where if you've already got something that someone might "pick on", you don't really want to add to the list. I can imagine some men I know being repulsed if I flashed them a hairy leg though, without a doubt
It would be very freeing to never again have to buy razors or daft kits that rip your skin off and leave you howling in the bathroom, though, oh yes.