young women - it's your world

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  Former Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

  September 2006

  and to think, all this was started over a guy we thought was bitter about getting blown out.

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  Former Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

  September 2006

  MattLiverpool wrote:

  So it is in the best interest for the man to be dominant in the relationship as that will will keep more attraction than if the woman dominated.

  
  Sorry it's a couple of pages ago, but I like this bit. Look at it again- who's in control here? The woman wants the man to be dominant, so he becomes/stays dominant in order to attract/keep her attention, yes? So, the man's dominance is at the request of the woman, who is therefore the dominant force in his behaviour in this situation- interesting, huh?

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  Former Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

  September 2006

  I agree with Katralla with her point about control in sub/dom situations, relationship dynamics or otherwise. If you look at it in sexual BDSM terms, ultimately, the sub has all the power and control given they have the power to say the safety word at any time.

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  Former Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

  September 2006

  subs win! lol. seriously though, in all situations where one party is consentaully being subservient to t'other, both parties enjoy both sub and dom aspects- the sub for the reasons above, and the dom because they agree by way of theiir actions, to submit to the sub's dominating force directing them to be dominant. er, well it made sense in my head. lol. subs rule 4eva!

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  Former Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

  September 2006

  
  
  
  [helpful addition to thread/]

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  Former Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

  September 2006

  high-five

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