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Do you think it's better to just kick your ex out of your life and then you can move on?
It depends entirely on what terms you break up on. For instance, I dumped my last girlfriend after I caught her in bed with another man.
Seriously? I've never known anyone to actually catch their other half in the act. Whose bed was it? Were they mid-shag?
I think the only way of ever being able to get over someone is to totally keep them out of your life until you know you have moved on.
I dont even understand how this works. How can a person possibly just cut someone completely off who has been around for the past few years? Especially if they haven't cheated on you or you have no real reason to properly hate them? It's like cutting off a leg or something.
:no: thats horrible. why the hell would she invite you over when she was planning on doing THAT????
lucifer devil wrote:
we've always been determined to remain friends and as yet we're still doing well
I have no idea whether it was planned, or whether a bloke had come over and they'd ended up in bed afterwards. Either way, it led her to one place - Dumpsville.
Thats a terrible thing to do to someone planned or not! Anyone would have been upset in that situation.
(well actually I want more than that even though I know I am better off without being in a relationship with him)
In my experience, if one or both feel like that, then it won't work. My experience anyway.
I think it probably can work. But there's got to be a gap, say a month or two, where you do cut contact. Otherwise it makes getting over them far too hard.