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Paying for it?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
Thinking about it. Might do it. Don't know yet. Need opinions...
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why on earth would you want to do that?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Pay for it? Why bother? There's plenty of sex to be had for free.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Expensive. Illegal. Very embarrasing if you get caught. Not particularly safe since you can never really know what her policies are with other customers with regards to protection. And ultimately, not going to give you a clue of how to get girls the normal way.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Illegal.

    Actually no. Paying someone for sex is not illegal. Soliciting, running a brothel, keeping a disorderly house and living off improper earnings are the main offences.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not particularly safe since you can never really know what her policies are with other customers with regards to protection.

    But shouldn't you treat everyone the same way r.e. protection ? Sure a prostitute has had more chances of picking up an infection, but anyone can. Like nurses/health professionals, they treat everyone as if they had HIV, so use the best protection available.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    RubberSkin wrote:
    Actually no. Paying someone for sex is not illegal. Soliciting, running a brothel, keeping a disorderly house and living off improper earnings are the main offences.
    Well okay, but it's likely to result in a trip down the police station if you get caught though.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    True. I don't know if there's an actual offence of kerb crawling, but it can lead to an 'interview' with the police.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why if it's not outisde and not in a car? i.e. in a building.

    p.s. kerb crawling is an offence, it'd be soliciting, as mentioned aboce.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why if it's not outisde and not in a car? i.e. in a building.

    p.s. kerb crawling is an offence, it'd be soliciting, as mentioned aboce.

    1. Why what ?

    2. Kerb crawlling is not soliciting, only prostitutes get charged with soliciting, and they're not usually in cars.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You'll probabaly be trading your virginity for an STD if you touch that shit

    I think it legal for escorts to operate from flat (house?) for their "services".

    Why people do it, I guess some people feel disadvantaged in life and want to have sex with their perfect girl... thin, big breasted or whatever :P
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Knobbbly wrote:
    ...want to have sex with their perfect girl... thin, big breasted or whatever :P

    Even the prostitutes on TV don't all look like that! I very much doubt the ones on the streets do either!

    There are plenty of "thin, big breasted" girls out there to have a normal, healthy relationship with...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Even the prostitutes on TV don't all look like that! I very much doubt the ones on the streets do either!

    Ha, the ones on the street scare the shit out of most people but those people are desperate drug users (who are willing to take legal and safety risk). There are some people (escorts) who make a life out of selling sex and some of these people are attractive normal people.

    I don't agree with it! I agree with MattLiverpool, a short term fix which will likely be emotionally unsatisfying.
    There are plenty of "thin, big breasted" girls out there to have a normal, healthy relationship with...

    Yes, any rational person like yourself and myself know these things. However, some people believe they are disadvanced in life, the type who say things like "good looking girls never fancy me because...".
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There was a thread about this not too long ago, if you do a search you will find it and it has loads of opinions on there if I remember rightly :thumb:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There was a thread about this not too long ago, if you do a search you will find it and it has loads of opinions on there if I remember rightly :thumb:
    Wasn't it somewhat related to a thread about second hand sex dolls as well though?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wasn't it somewhat related to a thread about second hand sex dolls as well though?

    Nah I dont think so, it was made by the same person I think, could be wrong though.

    Awww I miss Tugger!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What's wrong with waiting until you're in a relationship with someone? And would you really tell someone that your first time was with a prostitute?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lifeless wrote:
    Thinking about it. Might do it. Don't know yet. Need opinions...
    Go to a brothel. :thumb:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Honestly, it would only be worth it if there was no risk of STI transmission. I don't know about you, but I've pissed blood before and I'd rather not pay for the same experience.

    Just wait.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Here's a question, how many of you would go to Amsterdam on holiday and go to the red light district?
    Erm... maybe. Out of curiousity more than anything else. :angel:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Here's a question, how many of you would go to Amsterdam on holiday and go to the red light district?

    I've been to Amsterdam on a jolly holiday and I went to the Red Light District... why people pay to shag some of those munters, I'll never know. The sex shows are absolutely hilarious though!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've been to Amsterdam on a jolly holiday and I went to the Red Light District... why people pay to shag some of those munters, I'll never know. The sex shows are absolutely hilarious though!
    There are some ropey ones and specialist ones but there are some beautiful looking girls too, most of them where when i went.....i felt sorry for them though but it's their choice, they may feel great about it, who knows?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would find it very degrading it pay someone to sleep with me tbh.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would find it very degrading it pay someone to sleep with me tbh.

    I would as well.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    the only guys who pay for it are the sad wierdos who CANNOT get laid any other way. :rolleyes:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    <Quagmire Style> Sad weirdos need love too......except they gotta pay!
    thats not love
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It was a joke - to clarify, it was a Family Guy reference. If you want to be pedantic, replace "love" with "sex".

    :rolleyes:
    i know that really :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Even leaving aside all the moral/health issues, having sex once makes you want it even more. And if you can't get it any other way, that's gonna get bloody expensive.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    HIT wrote:
    Go to a brothel. :thumb:

    That was the idea. There's one in town. Very good reputation. That's the only reason I'm considering it.
    otter wrote:
    the only guys who pay for it are the sad wierdos who CANNOT get laid any other way. :rolleyes:

    Yup, thats me.
    Whoa man what the hell...

    In the other thread your point was there aren't enough decent girls around that you like, but now it seems you're just after sex?

    What DO you want?

    Sometimes I think you're a troll:impissed:

    You'll probabaly be trading your virginity for an STD if you touch that shit

    It's not just about sex. It's about creating the illusion (even if it's for an hour) of me getting some kind of affection.

    Oh who am I kidding. I aint gonna pay for it. I felt guilty spending £20 on an mp3 player... :impissed:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    As it has already been mentioned - you WON'T get affection from a prostitute; all they do is offer sex, ask for their money and that's it.
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