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I don't get it :s
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As some of you may know, i've had problems having sex since having our son (c-section). Eventually went to the docs and they told me they think i have Bacterial Vaginosis so gave me tablets which i finished yesterday.
So today we had sex. It was not half as painful as it was but it still felt a little sore once he was finally in.
Now what i don't get is, i tore a little bit, just like losing your virginity all over again. Can that really happen? I'm pretty sure thats why it hurt. It felt really tight underneath.
I mean when i was preggie things kinda swelled up a little so there was more blood flow down there but when i had had him it all went back down again.
Do you think it's possible that it's shunk back more that it was before i was preggie?:crazyeyes
So today we had sex. It was not half as painful as it was but it still felt a little sore once he was finally in.
Now what i don't get is, i tore a little bit, just like losing your virginity all over again. Can that really happen? I'm pretty sure thats why it hurt. It felt really tight underneath.
I mean when i was preggie things kinda swelled up a little so there was more blood flow down there but when i had had him it all went back down again.
Do you think it's possible that it's shunk back more that it was before i was preggie?:crazyeyes
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It happens if you don't have sex for ages.
ETA would it be bad to have sex whilst its torn?
Perhaps try a bit of lube, it might make it easier.
Stretch by having sex?
I mean't more gently. I am sure i heard you can rub something on it alot and it helps but i forget
http://www.childbirth.org/articles/massage.html
ETA: I know this page is about childbirth, because that's when it's usually done, but I'm pretty sure this is what you mean (could be wrong).
Good luck