What do you do during sex?

Former Member · August 2006

It's OK for people to say "I go down on her.", but how do you mean, exactly? What exactly do you do? What does she like? What does he like?

What does your sex usually involve? What "things" do you do during sex? How does it turn into sex? Do you just say "Let's have sex.", or does it just happen?

What steps do you normally take? What do you do prior to penetration in detail?

What do you do during penetration, and what do you do after?

Do you change positions often?

Former Member · August 2006

hmmm it normally starts in the same way.....lots of kissing, being alone/in a suitable location, and both being horny. It just happens its not normally decided by saying "lets have sex" but if one person wants it just kiss and things will follow on from there generally. youll normally kiss then get a bit comfier and do some more kissing, then perhaps take off some clothes, then maybe when your down to underwear touchng will start, then remove underwear, and then foreplay happens, then for me, if there is a condom around - it follows on to sex.

In a nutshell!

smitherz · August 2006

for me what actions i do depends on the person im shaggin' rele

Former Member · August 2006

you ask some strange things. Youve said in other threads you like shagging girls etc, but you dont like relationships, but now youre asking what happens in sex

:chin:

**helen** · August 2006

SecretPerson wrote:

It's OK for people to say "I go down on her.", but how do you mean, exactly? What exactly do you do? What does she like? What does he like?

What does your sex usually involve? What "things" do you do during sex? How does it turn into sex? Do you just say "Let's have sex.", or does it just happen?

What steps do you normally take? What do you do prior to penetration in detail?

What do you do during penetration, and what do you do after?

Do you change positions often?

Please bare in mind that these are VERY personal question that people may well feel uncomfortable answering - especially without knowing a bit of context behind the questions. People generally like to provide general advice, but asking for such specific information about such a wide range of sexual experience may be seen as perving.

ETA: it may be more appropriate to have a thorough look through our having sex section here or to write to one of our sex advisors at askTheSite

Former Member · August 2006

Other peoples sex life give me stiff.

Nah, I'm only kidding. I'm just curious.

I like reading discussions about this subject.

Former Member · August 2006

Would only be polite for you to answer your own questions first before expecting people to answer them.

Former Member · August 2006

If you don't wanna answer, don't. It's rather simple. You don't have to reply to every thread.

Former Member · August 2006

I juggle bannanas. Answer your own questions ya fuckwit. It's a rule.

Former Member · August 2006

Yes, thank you so much for pointing that out to me, and in response to your latter statement, I don't. Your reluctance to answer, not to mention hostility just strikes me a bit odd, might be worth noting **Helen's** advice.

littlemissy · August 2006

During sex I like to play the piano. Nothing gets me going more than a bit of Beethoven being played while he is going down on me.

What a bizarre question. I reckon you need to just lighten up and find your own moves.

However, this response ...

Other peoples sex life give me stiff.

just makes me think you are wanting to perve and get jiggy with it to what we say. If that is the case, then fuck right off. I know you say you are only kidding but I don't think you are. Something strikes me odd.

smitherz · August 2006

To me i don't think he is pervvy. I think he is looking for tips and stuff or to see what is most commonly done in that situation. IMO if you dont like the thread then you dont need to reply to it.

Former Member · August 2006

Nothing gets me going more than a bit of Beethoven being played while he is going down on me.

That could have been read as something completely different!

Former Member · August 2006

I think it's alright to ask, but then I am a pervert too and always on the look-out for particularly filthy sex tips. So dish dish you lot

As for me, usually I just hop on and take it from there, foreplay is nice but I think I'm just getting a bit impatient in my old age. It's very nice to kiss and touch for ages but sometimes you just want a good beasting, ya know (what do you mean, you don't

) In terms of intiating sex, I usually get pretty turned off by the "let's go and have sex now, baby" approach, at least it doesn't do anything for me. It's all about the look or just being grabbed, though obviously only when it's by your partner/fuck buddy or similar. I like it when you're out together (or apart, I suppose, such is the beauty of mobile phones) and you get turned on... well, I suppose it's pretty shit unless you KNOW you're gonna get it when you get home or find a convenient back alley (I'm totally kidding!). Which I do, so it's not shit at all.

The only thing I'm not consistently up for is buggery, and my most favourite thing in the world is when he gets up afterwards and makes a brew [so I can usually be persuaded to do pretty much anything with the promise of a nice cup of Tetley].

The only thing I really, really don't like is masks in the bedroom; I think I have issues. Condoms are shit, too, especially curry flavoured ones from the Lakeside pub in Fellgate :yuck: :yuck: :yuck:

Buuut in general I have to say - int sex brilliant

Former Member · August 2006

smitherz wrote:

To me i don't think he is pervvy. I think he is looking for tips and stuff or to see what is most commonly done in that situation. IMO if you dont like the thread then you dont need to reply to it.

Asking 12 personal questions seems a bit iffy to me. If he's looking advice then maybe he should tell us what he does, then we can tell him how we do it and how he might improve it.

Former Member · August 2006

Yerascrote wrote:

Asking 12 personal questions seems a bit iffy to me. If he's looking advice then maybe he should tell us what he does, then we can tell him how we do it and how he might improve it.

Come on ya big prude, share your sex tips with us for cash (...)!

Former Member · August 2006

You lot make me laugh.

I don't want advice, I'm just bored of the pub talk... "Yeah, I banged her."

It's interesting what goes on. No one really talks about it in any detail except sites like TheSite which is a professional and somewhat untrue guide.

Former Member · August 2006

Have you ever gone by a different name on here... :chin:

Former Member · August 2006

briggi wrote:

The only thing I'm not consistently up for is buggery,

You frigid bitch!!!

Former Member · August 2006

briggi wrote:

Come on ya big prude, share your sex tips with us for cash (...)!

Ok, usually start of kissing, then I'll finger her, mess about with her clit..she might pull me off. I'll just stop kissing and go down to lick her out if she doesn't mind, I don't ask, I just do it, if she says no then it's not happening. I'll tongue her clit and finger her cunt at the same time, though this gets extremely boring after a few minutes. If I'm drunk I'll ask her to suck me off but not when sober. I'll start off by going missionary, if that gets boring then I'll do doggystyle, sometimes I'll get her to go on top if she doesn't mind, never done anal cos it's not something I'm into, not that adventurous. When it's over I just lie there and have a lovely fag, haha only joking! Nah I just lie there, if I'm horny enough I'll go again in a few minutes.

Former Member · August 2006

SuzyCreamcheese wrote:

You frigid bitch!!!

:crying:

That's what they all say...

... until I turn the tables on them by producing Leroy the veiny twelve inch strap on from his hiding place under the bed and showing them once and for all that I'M the daddy round here :wave:

littlemissy · August 2006

go_away wrote:

That could have been read as something completely different!

Hmmm :chin:

Former Member · August 2006

my_name wrote:

Have you ever gone by a different name on here... :chin:

That's what I thought too.

Former Member · August 2006

smitherz wrote:

To me i don't think he is pervvy. I think he is looking for tips and stuff or to see what is most commonly done in that situation. IMO if you dont like the thread then you dont need to reply to it.

Did anyone ask you for your opinion? No? Well button it then.

briggi wrote:

Come on ya big prude, share your sex tips with us for cash (...)!

Oh, go on then.

We normally just start kissing and cuddling, and taking it from there. Finger and stroke down there, and sometimes go down on her. Then just hop on, there are certain tried and trusted positions, rarely with her on top. Sometimes go and play in the back garden (figuratively). Afterwards have a cuddle, and then either go to sleep or go and put a brew on.

Former Member · August 2006

theres two main types for me.

A) the more gentle style where theres a build up, often sex would not have been originally on the cards but me and said person would have made eachother horny with kissing, touching, then get it on (which involves mouths & genitals), and then finish with a nice nap, or bed if its bedtime.

The type when theres too much horny-ness going on to bother with any build up. More of a case of rampantly strip off own or eachother clothes and ride it like a cowboy till the job is done then carry on with whatever activities would have been happening anyway, cowboy legged. A shower is always nice.

Former Member · August 2006

Being no expert, I just tend to go with the flow. Normally lie down with a girl and talk informally, then if it feels ok I'll put my hand on her side / tummy, and move it, and then move it away if they get uncomfortable. If they're happy I'll move it everywhere

and soon after the clothes come off and then when I'm sure it's ok it gets a bit rampant.

Former Member · August 2006

Blah wrote:

theres two main types for me.

A) the more gentle style where theres a build up, often sex would not have been originally on the cards but me and said person would have made eachother horny with kissing, touching, then get it on (which involves mouths & genitals), and then finish with a nice nap, or bed if its bedtime.
The type when theres too much horny-ness going on to bother with any build up. More of a case of rampantly strip off own or eachother clothes and ride it like a cowboy till the job is done then carry on with whatever activities would have been happening anyway, cowboy legged. A shower is always nice.

:yes: same here :flirt:

**helen** · August 2006

I have to admit - I might have been a bit hasty to worry about where this thread might go - you lot are the best

Former Member · August 2006

Well not being of the persaussion of the majority i don't really know. I think you put your bits in her virginia and excite her clematis. There's something to do with a volvo too, but i'm not sure

Former Member · August 2006

RubberSkin wrote:

Well not being of the persaussion of the majority i don't really know. I think you put your bits in her virginia and excite her clematis. There's something to do with a volvo too, but i'm not sure

Former Member · August 2006

I'm going to stop reading this thread, the mental images i keep getting aren't making me feel all too good.

What do you do during sex?

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