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What do you do during sex?
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It's OK for people to say "I go down on her.", but how do you mean, exactly? What exactly do you do? What does she like? What does he like?
What does your sex usually involve? What "things" do you do during sex? How does it turn into sex? Do you just say "Let's have sex.", or does it just happen?
What steps do you normally take? What do you do prior to penetration in detail?
What do you do during penetration, and what do you do after?
Do you change positions often?
What does your sex usually involve? What "things" do you do during sex? How does it turn into sex? Do you just say "Let's have sex.", or does it just happen?
What steps do you normally take? What do you do prior to penetration in detail?
What do you do during penetration, and what do you do after?
Do you change positions often?
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In a nutshell!
Please bare in mind that these are VERY personal question that people may well feel uncomfortable answering - especially without knowing a bit of context behind the questions. People generally like to provide general advice, but asking for such specific information about such a wide range of sexual experience may be seen as perving.
ETA: it may be more appropriate to have a thorough look through our having sex section here or to write to one of our sex advisors at askTheSite
Nah, I'm only kidding. I'm just curious.
I like reading discussions about this subject.
What a bizarre question. I reckon you need to just lighten up and find your own moves.
However, this response ...
just makes me think you are wanting to perve and get jiggy with it to what we say. If that is the case, then fuck right off. I know you say you are only kidding but I don't think you are. Something strikes me odd.
That could have been read as something completely different!
As for me, usually I just hop on and take it from there, foreplay is nice but I think I'm just getting a bit impatient in my old age. It's very nice to kiss and touch for ages but sometimes you just want a good beasting, ya know (what do you mean, you don't ) In terms of intiating sex, I usually get pretty turned off by the "let's go and have sex now, baby" approach, at least it doesn't do anything for me. It's all about the look or just being grabbed, though obviously only when it's by your partner/fuck buddy or similar. I like it when you're out together (or apart, I suppose, such is the beauty of mobile phones) and you get turned on... well, I suppose it's pretty shit unless you KNOW you're gonna get it when you get home or find a convenient back alley (I'm totally kidding!). Which I do, so it's not shit at all.
The only thing I'm not consistently up for is buggery, and my most favourite thing in the world is when he gets up afterwards and makes a brew [so I can usually be persuaded to do pretty much anything with the promise of a nice cup of Tetley].
The only thing I really, really don't like is masks in the bedroom; I think I have issues. Condoms are shit, too, especially curry flavoured ones from the Lakeside pub in Fellgate :yuck: :yuck: :yuck:
Buuut in general I have to say - int sex brilliant
Come on ya big prude, share your sex tips with us for cash (...)!
I don't want advice, I'm just bored of the pub talk... "Yeah, I banged her."
It's interesting what goes on. No one really talks about it in any detail except sites like TheSite which is a professional and somewhat untrue guide.
Ok, usually start of kissing, then I'll finger her, mess about with her clit..she might pull me off. I'll just stop kissing and go down to lick her out if she doesn't mind, I don't ask, I just do it, if she says no then it's not happening. I'll tongue her clit and finger her cunt at the same time, though this gets extremely boring after a few minutes. If I'm drunk I'll ask her to suck me off but not when sober. I'll start off by going missionary, if that gets boring then I'll do doggystyle, sometimes I'll get her to go on top if she doesn't mind, never done anal cos it's not something I'm into, not that adventurous. When it's over I just lie there and have a lovely fag, haha only joking! Nah I just lie there, if I'm horny enough I'll go again in a few minutes.
:crying:
That's what they all say...
... until I turn the tables on them by producing Leroy the veiny twelve inch strap on from his hiding place under the bed and showing them once and for all that I'M the daddy round here :wave:
Hmmm :chin:
Did anyone ask you for your opinion? No? Well button it then.
Oh, go on then.
We normally just start kissing and cuddling, and taking it from there. Finger and stroke down there, and sometimes go down on her. Then just hop on, there are certain tried and trusted positions, rarely with her on top. Sometimes go and play in the back garden (figuratively). Afterwards have a cuddle, and then either go to sleep or go and put a brew on.
A) the more gentle style where theres a build up, often sex would not have been originally on the cards but me and said person would have made eachother horny with kissing, touching, then get it on (which involves mouths & genitals), and then finish with a nice nap, or bed if its bedtime.
The type when theres too much horny-ness going on to bother with any build up. More of a case of rampantly strip off own or eachother clothes and ride it like a cowboy till the job is done then carry on with whatever activities would have been happening anyway, cowboy legged. A shower is always nice.
:yes: same here :flirt: