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Sexlessness
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How do you cope with not having sex?
As most of the regs on here know I'm in a LDR and it will be ages until I next see my boyfriend.
Any tips on how to cope? I want to feel whole again
As most of the regs on here know I'm in a LDR and it will be ages until I next see my boyfriend.
Any tips on how to cope? I want to feel whole again
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Im here ... im free :thumb:
Try getting some dirty novels or something like that but sometimes not doing anything for ages and then having sex again can be amazing:thumb:
How long will it be until you see your partner? If you dont mind me asking........
All that leaves, then, is to have a f*ck buddy ... any tips (no pun intended) we give you will obviously involve masturbation somehow.
randomgirl, think along the lines of phone sex etc, how long til you go back over there? it will get to a point where you probably dont feel like you need it so much, kinda like you have got used to it.
Ohhhh! Ok. Sorry. I thought she meant that she didn't like masturbation - full stop.
Hmmmmm ... well, thinking specifically in terms of being aroused by the boyfriend (e.g. swapping sexy texts and pics) can heighten one's libido when when resigned to masturbation. Will you be able to cam with him at all?
But on a serious note, a vibrator is the obvious answer if that's not an avenue you've already been down. Have a browse around, there are some... interesting options available to we women. Phone sex is another excellent idea, if you can get cheap-o phone calls to Brazil then the job's a good'un :thumb:
Exercize. Plenty of it. Massages. Spa treatments. Getting hammered.
I think I was a bit unclear but what I meant was that I don't enjoy masturbation (unless its mutual masturbation). I have a couple of vibrators but they really don't do much for me except remind me of my electric toothbrush, even when I use them both at once.
Fuck buddy stuff is completely out of the question, I want *my* man not just any man.
I think the suggestions on ways to dampen my desires rather than satisfy them are the way forwards so have taken migpilots advise (except the getting hammered bit - that's not my thing these days!).
Thanks for all your suggestions guys :thumb: