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wen summat good happens to me summat bad is attached 2 it

BillieTheBotBillieTheBot Posts: 8,721 Bot
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i know most of u r prob gonna say no n be really cynical but ere goes......
a guy emailed me.....i emailed him back.....we kept emailin.....now we chat on msn n txt......we r soooo fallin in love.. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; ......2day he sed 2 me that he had never felt the way he feels bout me about ne1 in his entire life, even tho we hardly know each other. the sad thing is we dont live newhere near each other. we will meet if we can but who knows wen that'll b? neways, r we stoopid 4 fallin in love like we did. plz dont post wiv ya sarci comments. do that sumwhere else.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    im not sure if you're asking a question at all? or if you're just sharing.

    i dont think it's sad. its happened to me, and ive seen it happen to a lot of others. sometimes it doesnt matter if you've met or not, you CAN know someone well on the net and stuff. and long distance IS hard... but if you both care about each other and see how good it would be for you to be together, you can make it. i had a long distance relationship that started on the net (ha, 2 so-called relationships that "never work" <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">), and it lasted 16 months.... the distance did make it hard but we both believed in it so we lasted a long time.

    when you meet someone off the net its weird.... its like you know them really well... but in another way you dont. you sort of do have to get to know them as real people... but it doesnt take too long <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    i say good luck to you both <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol. i dont know if i'm skin a question or not either!!!! thanx 4 ur advice.....my first and only previous internet relationship lasted 3 days. my "bf" turned around n sed he was sorry but he'd just come out of a relationship and didnt want another so that lasted a whole 3 days! so..that left me pretty insecure about internet relationships....lol..i'm so confused!
    i am the emotionless freak who dusnt make sense on a good day
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I hate to be the cynical one to contribute to this discussion but I beg to differ on "you can know someone well on the net".
    Have u seen him?
    Cos if u haven`t, for all u know he could be a forty year old 22 stone kiddie-fiddler named Herman.
    And if he sent u a photo, doesn`t neccessarily mean its him.
    I`m assuming you trust him, well that`s just what net pervs try to get their would-be victims to do, trust them. So if u do meet with him, please take someone along. Even if they`re just hiding in the bushes, its still backup incase things go tits up.
    Until recently, I didn`t believe in love at first sight and I still don`t believe that you can fall in love with someone without even seeing them.
    However, I have been proven wrong on a few rare occasions so please think about what I`ve said, and good luck.
    "Honesty is just an excuse for lack of imagination."

    [This message has been edited by Talyn (edited 26-08-2001).]
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    i think if you know someone long enough, you can tell if they're genuine or not. especially if some other people you're friends with on the net talks to them... its quite difficult to sustain a false personality for a long time. if you talk to them on the phone you can kinda tell what gender and age they are, pretty much anyway <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    although you cant go straight from knowing each other online to having a relationship in person, you need some sort of transition period to get to know each other again. thats why i dont think online relationships are such a good idea... meeting people on the net and THEN turning it into a relationship, on the other hand, is fine... but jsut assuming you'll feel the same about them exactly and how they'll fit your preconceptions exactly isnt such a hot idea i dont think. but each to their own..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Talyn:
    So if u do meet with him, please take someone along. Even if they`re just hiding in the bushes, its still backup incase things go tits up.


    lol. do u think i'm dumb enuff to go on my own?! thanx 4 the vote of confidence!!!!! thanx 4 postin neways <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
    i am the emotionless freak who dusnt make sense on a good day
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *~*kiz*~*:
    lol. do u think i'm dumb enuff to go on my own?! thanx 4 the vote of confidence!!!!! thanx 4 postin neways <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    Just thought I`d make sure, cos some people ARE that dumb.
    "Honesty is just an excuse for lack of imagination."
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