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Breaking up and having to suffer
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Self absorbed thread i know but i just split from my girlfriend and i just can't cope. I love her and she loves me but apparently because of personal issues she can't put me first. Apparently I have been a near on perfect boyfriend but she just can't handle being responsible for someone elses feelings when she can't handle her own. She doesn't want to hurt me anymore.
I am lost without her, I lost friends etc to be with her, my life revolves around when i see her. I can't even imagine the thought of not kissing her or making love. If she loves me so much how can this be the solution. I am lost. I know there is a supposed future past her but i can't see it. She is the only person I have ever loved and want to love.
What to do? How to get her back? I need her back!
I am lost without her, I lost friends etc to be with her, my life revolves around when i see her. I can't even imagine the thought of not kissing her or making love. If she loves me so much how can this be the solution. I am lost. I know there is a supposed future past her but i can't see it. She is the only person I have ever loved and want to love.
What to do? How to get her back? I need her back!
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Because i love her so much
:yes: Are you two still friends?
and thats life! as much as it hurts now, you'll get over it with time.
So I would say take some time apart from her, catch up with your friends, get out and do stuff without her. Then see how you feel.
Oddly enough, it will also increase your chances of getting back with her. Girls don't want a guy that mopes around pining for them. Having a life is much more attractive.
Why? I think you should just move on adn forget about her.
yeah, they only come around every day
Maybe she'll realise she likes you, but when someone pulls the "its not you its me" card its not very often that they do come back. That's the way life is.
brush yourself down, grieve a little for what you've lost, and get back out there.
Plus as soon as she is sorted she wants to get back together if i still single. In fact I will be first person she calls
I know it's hard, but the sooner you try and move on then the sooner you'll get over her.