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Talking to girls

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
What is the best way to chat up a girl?
Whats the best way to approach a girl in a bar but still keeping your dignity and not being a sleaze?

i have yet to find the perfect grain of sand!!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dont think about it like that, thats my advice.

    I have never had a problem talking to girls as freinds, but i go to jelly when it starts getting intimate/physical/emotional.

    Talk to girls as people, not conquests, be genuinely freindly. Introduce yourself, comment on somethin (like the weather "ohhh its cold isnt it ??") and 9/10 times the convo gets going from there.

    Better than cheesy chat up lines ne way.
    Seriously man, dont think about it, just be yourself (a lot of girls like that)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i no that, but i suppose the real question was when do u no to give up flirting?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Most of the time u can tell, if she says "uh huh" a lot then give up.

    But if she seems genuinely interested in you, then things will take themselves from there.....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    walk up to her, smile sweetly and say "hi can i buy you a drink?"

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    Good luck!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Drifter:
    walk up to her, smile sweetly and say "hi can i buy you a drink?"

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    Good luck!


    Improvement on that: walk up to her, say "hi, can i buy you a drink", when she says yes say "ah, sorry. i'm flat broke. but there's booze back at my place"


    heheh...alright, don't try that.
    And all the grown-ups say is sorry, cos we got no reply.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just don't be too pushy! Be yourself, she'll see you for who you are.
    We are all in the gutter.
    The difference between us is that some of us face skyward..
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