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Happy endings?
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Hi,
I'm just wondering if any of you guys have been cheated on, or if YOU were the one who cheated, BUT your partner forgave you (or vise versa) and from then everything came out rosey and they never did it again etc.
I think I just need to know if there ARE any happy stories out there in this sort of situation.
Thanks.
I'm just wondering if any of you guys have been cheated on, or if YOU were the one who cheated, BUT your partner forgave you (or vise versa) and from then everything came out rosey and they never did it again etc.
I think I just need to know if there ARE any happy stories out there in this sort of situation.
Thanks.
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its one of the worst things you can possibly do.
end of.
i know my parents relationship hasn't been good for a few years. In october 04 my mum nearly walked out. I asked her why and she said it was something dad did. Now because of how they were and it was mum who was the most upset - i think my dad cheated. I can't be 100% but i'm pretty sure.
Now they're getting divorced.
Not that i'm aware of. In fact it wouldn't surprise me if he made that bit up but i'll never know!
I thought it would work out but it didn't. I don't think it does in any case to be honest.
Have to say thats exactly how i felt. I don't know why but after i got back with him, it was like he had the upper hand in someway. I was always made to feel like it was my fault or something, or i should be grateful.
I think to make it work after one person has cheated would take a hell of a lot of trust and hard work.
But I'm sorry to say, I don't think it does. It'd be so hard to regain that trust again, and I dont know about other people, but I always felt like if I got back with him it'd be like he was getting away with it scott free. Especially if they don't really make much effort to make things right. I mean, anyone can say 'i'm so sorry' and 'I'd never do anything like that again', but actions speak louder than words.
So no, I dont think getting back with a cheating ex would work out. I'm sorry
Is this entirely hypothetical or is this a tacit post regarding something you or your fella has done?
It is something that her fella has done.
We were PERFECT before this happened. Like REALLY perfect. We were even going to get engaged by the end of the year.
I HATE him but part of me still loves him and wants him.
Hes so sorry for what he did and hates himself- he says he doesnt really remember much of it anyway from the drink- but thats deffo no excuse!!!
So i guess I just wanted to see if there were any happy stories out there when couples get back together. :crying:
I cheated on my girlfriend about a year ago. I never cheated again. We were together for a year after that (till today) when it emerged about.. other things.
BUT if that didn't happen, we would have been ok.