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Did anyone here ever went skinny dipping with a person of the other sex without being in a relationship with him/her?
Is it just playful fun, a witty kind of way to spent the evening a little different as usual, or is this just asking for trouble?
What if any of the 2 people is in a relationship? Is this 'unfair' towards the partner? Do you think is seeing a friend who you think is attractive naked in that kind of way a problem for the friendship?
How would the girls react if they notice the guy gets an erection? Is it a shame? "Ohmigod, he's just a friend, but....", or is this a mere sign of "he thinks I am attractive".
input please.
Is it just playful fun, a witty kind of way to spent the evening a little different as usual, or is this just asking for trouble?
What if any of the 2 people is in a relationship? Is this 'unfair' towards the partner? Do you think is seeing a friend who you think is attractive naked in that kind of way a problem for the friendship?
How would the girls react if they notice the guy gets an erection? Is it a shame? "Ohmigod, he's just a friend, but....", or is this a mere sign of "he thinks I am attractive".
input please.
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lol or hang downs rather
to which she asked, if I was serious. I tried to play it off, but she said... "well I am thinking... did you ever see me naked? I don't think so."
I asked her, if she had any problem with me seeing her naked, to which she said she's going to think about it during her supper. She came back and said, that she'd be fine with it.
I know that she's in a very healthy and fullfilling relationship (she told me she cried last time, her boyfriend had to return to the barracks after the weekend [in austria -> one year of mandatory military service]).
I called it off in the end, because... I don't know.
tbh... I am a boy and was kinda interested in seeing her nekkid , but it did not appear to be a good idea after all...
you are more or less right. Because there would be no reason not to pack his swimgear if you meet extra to go nocturnal swimming.
Yeah, it's kinda weird. Like I said I blew it off in the end, because I built it too much up, even tho I thought it's a really funny idea.
The stuff good stories are made off... that you can't tell around of course, due to her b/f
It wouldnt even bother me to go onto a nude beach to be honest although it is something i've not yet done. We all get uptight about what we look like naked but once everyone else around is also naked nobody bats an eyelid. Only time I would'nt be happy to go naked is if there was other people around who were not joining in or someone pulled out a camera.
In a group I guess its easy if everyone there is also naked as its all even, might be a bit wierd someone being there clothed and watching you all. Would also be odd if there was just two of you who are not going out without it being sexual.
yeah. That's the point. She's a really good friend of mine. I know her since I was 16 (she 13). We had a lot of fights and even stopped talking a couple of times, the longest period have been 6 months, but we always became friends again. In the last time there were a lot of things that I personally would do on the "don't" list, if there is just friendship, especially if she's in a relationship.
I don't know, there was a lot of tension lately, but she is in a superhappy relationship etc and I know for granted she does not want more from me.
It's stupid, yea, you might say she shouldn't be doing such things to a friend (who is in a certain way attracted to her), but I was provoking it pretty tough recently.
Generally seen I agree with you, that two friends who meet up to go skinny dipping sound like trouble in da hood, but that's the way we are. Anyhoo, I called it off nontheless, because it was just one step too much for me.
I bet swimming naked is ace.
She is.
On the first note it sounds awesome, but then.... hmmm.
It's weird. It's like candy and bullwhip. On the one hand she allows you such things and gives you a feeling or no boundaries etc. On the other hand, she talks a lot about her boyfriend, how cool it is with him, that the last <weekend/day/holidays> are/were soooo awesome.
that's like 2 not fitting puzzle pieces and you want to jam them together.
I don't think it should be happening, but let's see when next time I can't think with my head, but my weiner, how I'll decide then :shocking:
that if the girl was hot, regardless friends or not, wouldn't mind skinny dipping with them.
sad but true, in the minds of a guy, a hot girl can never be just friends
Quoted for fucking truth.
They are when you're dating a hotter one:D
Having seen your mate strubble, I bloody well would :thumb:
so true
after all one of my housemates was a rather nice bit of alright (said kermit) and i never once thought of it as that way
That's the point. I wouldn't want to do it, if I had a girlfriend, and SURE as hell wouldn't want it happening between my g/f and her best mate (of different sex).
If you make it one step harder, let's talk about cheating. Cheating in a relation is FUCKED UP, but being the one with WHOM she cheats is not a tad better.
It might be ok, if her b/f knew and be cool with it (he knows we have been friends for a long long time, were almost together once, years ago, and all that jazz).
What a friend I am, thinking with my dick instead of my head.
But last wek, we were a tad drunk and just decided to do it. It wasnt strange not pervy but incredibly liberating I wouldnt suggest doing it if either person is in a relationship but otherwise i think it can help strengthen an already strong friendship..
If you want to do it, and she wants to do it, then why not. But if you are wanting to do it with the intention of cuddling up close and vigorously drying each other off in a field afterwards, then you're gonna be disappointed mate.
yes yes yes... I know all that and I haven't expected anything like that. In the first minutes I was suggesting it (going skinny dipping) it sounded like a lot of fun... as time passed I built it up more and more until I came into a moral conflict that it's just not right.
As I write this we (she and me) don't talk a whole lot, since she's totally in her boyfriend spending every minute with him and I knew that beforehand. It's definitely a fun idea if both are single and without expectations. Otherwise not.