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Am I 2 jealous
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I've been going out with my g.friend for around a month now, we are getting on fine but she had a pregnancy scare a week or so ago but thats sorted!
I Love her to bits and I im sure she feels the same BUT i've been hurt before by girls, and I carn't stop thinking about her when she's out down town at the weekends and if she'd cheat on me!
She always invites me but i'm not sure i'd get in the clubs she goes (i'm 18 nxt week) so i go clubs with my own mates that i no i'm going to get in.
I think we have got something good going but although i trust her there is still a seed of doubt in my mind. Is this me just being stupid?
I Love her to bits and I im sure she feels the same BUT i've been hurt before by girls, and I carn't stop thinking about her when she's out down town at the weekends and if she'd cheat on me!
She always invites me but i'm not sure i'd get in the clubs she goes (i'm 18 nxt week) so i go clubs with my own mates that i no i'm going to get in.
I think we have got something good going but although i trust her there is still a seed of doubt in my mind. Is this me just being stupid?
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You have to sort this out. If she picks up on this jealousy and mistrust you can assure that you won't be together much longer. It's not fair on you, especially as she has given you absolutely no reason to think such things.
Why don't you try coming to some sort of agreement and take her out to one of the clubs you know you can get in. But you do have to realise that if you can't give her her freedom, she won't want to be with you much longer.
You're being stupid. I know it's a cliche but trust really is one of the most important things in a relationship. Without it the relationship will just fall apart.
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if u didnt give a shit u wouldn't have a relationship
ur not jealous, u just find it hard to trust
work on the trust and you'll have both caring and trust in ur relationship...that's pretty much perfect
it's too easy to say "yeah ur jealous u shud let her go out and not worry" cuz that's now how someone thinks when they care, and it's quite worrying nobody spotted that
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And now i feel great, ive totally lost all the worrying and things. My g/f would agree with you MD, i though i was just being over protective or jealous, but she said, its great the way i am, shes never had a bloke who shows his feelings and how much he cares for her. So that made me feel 100X's better knowing that she felt ok with it, didnt see me as jealous and just saw it as me caring and worrying cos i like her so much.
I think novakovino should have a talk with his g/f, about how he feels, how much he likes her and all the stuff about getting into clubs etc, dont argue, just say you wanted a chat to sort things out. And hopefully it'll go as great for you as it did for me.
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