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Help me save my marriage...........

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
I,m Trying this for the first time but there seems to be alot of good people with good advice..
I've been happily married for 5yrs now with beautiful twin girls.Every thing seemed rosy until i found out that my wife was having an E-Mail affair.The thing is that this guy was just playing a sick game where he leads people on arranges to meet then spills the beans to the victims partner.(so watch out).
She never met the bloke but told him plenty of stuff. Explicit stuff and that she wanted her cake and eat it.
I love my wife like nothing else on this earth but i'm becoming paranoid that she might try this again although she says she learnt by her mistake and doesn't want to lose me.
Iwant to know how to learn and trust her again but have know idea as this is tearing me up inside.
Thanks for any advice..
Your gratefully ELGARD


  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I sympathise with you, i really do. But do you really want to risk throwing this marraige away over an email affair.

    I know it feels the same as her being unfaithful, but it sounds to me like this sick bastard led her on, and it seems like a lot of blame has to lie with him.

    Let's face it there are lots of people who go on the net and try to be something they are not, knowing that if things become to heavy they can turn off the computer and go back to their cosy lives. I don't agree with it, but that's the way it is.

    I know you're hurting, and it will take time to get over this. Just talk it over with her and find out why she did it. Then maybe once you have talked things through, you can start to put things back together again.

    Hope that helped a bit. Let me know how you got on

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