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Well again it depends, everyone is going to have a different opinion. Personally I love learning about new things so I would probably enjoy talking to him about why he enjoys watching those things.
You will find out how to keep the girl entertained and interested as you get to know her more. Through talking to her you'll find out what she likes. Its important that you have fun too though, she will have more fun spending time with you if you are enjoying yourself aswell.
Whats a good way to flirt? compliments?
Any other ways I can avoid the friend zone?
heres a really good question: Imwithstupid: you said in a previous post if you want a specific girl you have to make a move on her soon before you get caught in the friendship trap but if you do it too soon it can scare her of so when should you do it.
There, theres some advice.
I don't laugh manically when I read manga or when I watch anime but when a gory kill comes up I just either stay blank or have an evil smirk.....
Violent films I just go "whoa" or evil grin....
I love your wit!
Just another example......
If a girl was having relationship troubles though I would just let them sort it cause I dont want to be a third party. I would like to cheer her up but I wouldnt want to make them break up on purpose because thats just low! Its like a unwritten bloke code!
besides I wouldnt want to be the easy answer yes man anyway
Now theres a good start. Girls always love a good compliment
Did I? I dunno, it's not a case of the longer you hang out with a girl, the more likely you are to get into the friendship zone. It's more a case of knowing the opportunities when they come along and taking them. If you don't she will assume you're not interested, and move on.
I dunno if your joking or being serious but hey I've read some of your posts and they make a hell of alot of sense! I just get the idea you've been around the block a few times.....
Im 19
You just need to get a bit of self confidence, all the thngs you have been asking about are things that you will learn as you go along...flirting and getting to know people are really fun. You're gonna end up taking all of the pleasure out of it (for you and her) if you're constantly thinking "Am I in the friend zone?" or "How can i make sure i dont come across too nice?"
Just be yourself and enjoy it, make yourself happy (that isnt a reference to masturbation) stop worrying so much about the girl and just think of yourself for a bit. People will be attracted to you much more if they can see you are enjoying life and having fun.
I could kiss you. I really could.
Oooo i love kissing! :flirt: :flirt:
That boys is how you flirt
But no really you summed up everything i wanted to say but couldn't be bothered to type.
Its just all this bollocks about girls want the alpha male to breed with and they can smell fear....
its really offputting
I am a cheeky fuck arn't I?
I just like when people don't use fucking darwin and evolution to describe mating and dating. I read articles like that and just say fuck it and wind up more upset and pissed off than before I started to go out and research.
Are you trying to flirt with I'm With Stupid?! :eek2:
if so please continue....
me : do you have a plaster?
girl: why?
me: I scraped my knee falling for you....
oh heres another one
girl wants to sit down,
me: let me wipe down a place for you to sit.
*wipe my mouth*