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people interfering with relationship...hmmm
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Why do some people feel like they have to try and ruin a good thing for people? I have a very good relationship with my girlfriend and would never hide or lie to her about anything.
well last night some person decides to tell her that i slept with some girl (i hadn't by the way)...not like it had anything to do with this person..
what i cant understand is what would make somebody make something up like this and tell them something unfounded?
of course ive explained that i didnt sleep with this girl and she believes me so its all good.
its wound me up a bit. grrr
well last night some person decides to tell her that i slept with some girl (i hadn't by the way)...not like it had anything to do with this person..
what i cant understand is what would make somebody make something up like this and tell them something unfounded?
of course ive explained that i didnt sleep with this girl and she believes me so its all good.
its wound me up a bit. grrr
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Anyway i wouldn't worry about it. Sounds like you have a good relationship with her and she trusts you, so thats all that matters. But yeah i can understand how something like that can piss you off.
not that i know of, thats the only reason i can think of...
its just puzzling.
good job it hasnt caused a row between us or i'd have been even more miffed.
Have you spoke to him or not? (actually, dpending on what type of modd you're in, this may not be a good idea)
its all blah blah blah now anyway cos ive sorted it out with her, i just fancied a bit of a whinge and other peoples opinions. good job it didnt bother her tho.
its someone neither of us know that well, but oh well its done now, and past it.
we're both at work at the moment so havent discussed it fully yet, will be doing when i get home. im just glad it hasnt affected us bad because we are going good at the moment.
This make the situation a bit more tricky imo, i wouldnt really know what to do besides hit the guy. so i dont know what to suggest but im sure somebody on thesite will have some advice other than lamp him...
ETA: this post actually has no relevance what-so-ever.. i posted it in the the wrong thread
Nah, I think that's exactly what he needs.
and then Koe will get into trouble for it...
I've actually been in a similar situation like this before and it sucks. It will die down eventually.
I didn't say it was a good idea, but anyone who spreads that shit needs a beating.
:yes: This was the same sitch for me. So called "friends" tried to ruin my relationship. It has died down, but I dont consider them friends anymore, though they don't know... but thats another complicated story.
I reckon it was jealousy that she cant hold down a relationship and she is a complete bitch too so yeah. As long as your gf trusts you and whatnot, then its fine to ignore it, even if you fury over it for a few days. Some people just need to grow up.