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Ever feel ugly?
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Gah, I feel like shit at the minute. I don't post much on here about what happens in my love life but to sum it up, since I split with my bf in january I've been pulling an ex work colleague pureky on casual terms (neither of us wanted a serious thing for several reasons at the minute).
I guess I was always under the illusion that he found me attractive, and ya know, that's always nice isn't it...when the person you've been crushing over for a while returns the sentiment.
I've never been confident about the way I look, my sister is gorgeous and got the legs whilst I'm a bloody midget and in general she's the better looking one. Same goes with my group of friends, I've never been rated a hottie and I guess I shrug it off and say to myself, "oh but you're smart instead"
Anyway, sorry I'm away off topic here, but there now I just found out on this blog site that the guy I've been pulling actually doesn't rate me much and it hit me pretty hard because I liked him for fucking ages and I can take knocks about my grades or choice of boyfriends or music tastes but I've never taken insults to my looks very well.
Fucking hurts.
:crying:
I just wanted to vent...God I feel like shit right now.
I guess I was always under the illusion that he found me attractive, and ya know, that's always nice isn't it...when the person you've been crushing over for a while returns the sentiment.
I've never been confident about the way I look, my sister is gorgeous and got the legs whilst I'm a bloody midget and in general she's the better looking one. Same goes with my group of friends, I've never been rated a hottie and I guess I shrug it off and say to myself, "oh but you're smart instead"
Anyway, sorry I'm away off topic here, but there now I just found out on this blog site that the guy I've been pulling actually doesn't rate me much and it hit me pretty hard because I liked him for fucking ages and I can take knocks about my grades or choice of boyfriends or music tastes but I've never taken insults to my looks very well.
Fucking hurts.
:crying:
I just wanted to vent...God I feel like shit right now.
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You cant please everyone.
Yeah, I'd second that. You certainly aren't ugly!!
After a while I'll get angry and do something productive like turn into a lesbian.
It is a huge confidence knock, though I have to go with the concensus and say that from what I have seen of you... you are BY NO STRETCH OF THE IMAGINATION ugly.
In answer to the initial question - I do feel ugly a fair amount of the time, and was told just that by my boyfriend's mate this very evening. Charmed, I'm sure :rolleyes: ... But yeah, this bloke in question isn't the only stupid/insensitive cunt around.
Don't let one nobhead guy get to you. For every person who isn't too keen on the way someone looks, there'll be a person who lives and dies for them. It's the way it is for everyone. You just have to ignore the 'meh' half and concentrate on the 'phwoooar' half :yes:
No way am I going near him in that department. Cept he's recently come back to my place of work for some extra shifts so I'll have to make an extra effort when I get up in the morning. :rolleyes:
Thanks all, you've made me feel muchos better
We weren't planning on becoming bf and gf at the present time because I had split up from a 3yr thing and wanted an easy relaxing summer and he's just graduated and his dad died etc so we were just playing about and taking it easy.
You dont need people around you who make you feel like crap.
Theres things much more important than looks. Having said that, you are very good looking (for a lady )
:yes:
Either that or say nothing, then next time you're doing whatever you're doing, break it off, and say that you're not sure you could ever just settle for him.
Eye for an eye