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you mean check her so called 'better half'
I don't fucking think so! she looks like a bloke!
LOL
Do whatever it is you'd do to find out if she's seeing a bloke; ask her friends, ask her, whatever - and if she is seeing someone, leave her to it. If not, go ahead and ask her out
Yeah, you can get to know her...
i guess thats all I really wanna do
shes the only girl ive liked to be honest
Good louck with it all. Dont' mind what other people say, if you want to get to know her and such, then its all up to you
I know I word things badly, but still...
Anyway; the best thing to do is get to know her like you would a friend - then if something develops that's great - if not, then you've made a new mate.
You win either way.
Ive thought alot about what you guys said and I really do appreciate it.
I think she hates me because of somthing that happened (I dont really wanna talk about it now but for anyone who is interested just ask and ill tell you but only if you dont judge or make fun of me)
my advice is to stay close to her, be her mate and wait she broke up with that boy/girl... than attack!
VENI, VIDI, VICI....
Its the same as asking out a stright girl, in fact there is possibly benefits from this as she can have a threesome with another girl :thumb:
But if it was really dumb, at least you know not to do it next time.
couldnt find the right skirt size....
see I got jokes too
anyway back to the subject...
The girl I liked ive liked her for a while (rather not say how long)
Typically I did what every bloke does when they like a girl (try to check her out on every occasion, try to speak to her). I also thought she wouldnt wanna know cause of my condition (cebral palsy, limp in my leg) shes also quite a popular girl so shes hardly ever on her own. I thought she tell me to piss off if I tried to speak to her or she'd hate me for bothering her.
Then I found out she was seeing a girl and kept getting told "I wouldnt bother with her if i was you but all i really wanted/want to do is get to know her but as I said shes elusive and hard to catch on her own.
I just said what I had wanted to say in a note and her friends got involved
Before anyone says anything: Yes im aware its risky to put stuff like that in a note and yes I thought she was interested for reasons I may explain later but this is what I did
I did it for a number of reasons
1. shes hard to get on her own
2. she may be leaving for uni this year
3. Id feel like complete shit if i never told her
4. It would be less embarrasing that way (for her anyway..)
thats all im saying for now
im not looking for sympathy or to have the mick taken out of me just for someone to listen
This is what I mean by Im worried she'll hate me
Man breasts
yeah and give me horrible chest pain...
while Im at it why dont I just slice off my nutsack?