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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hello everybody.
Im 14 and I am in love with a girl in my class called Lauren. I have been since I was 12 and my love has only got stronger but Im afraid she doesnt feel the same about me <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;
She is currently involved with a mate of mine, Conor.
How can I change things, I know I will never be in a relationship with her, but how can I make things easier, this is really killing me.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sorry mate. You can't change things.

    There's nothing that feels worse than being in love with someone who doesn't love you back. But take it from me, you can't make her love you, and you shouldn't even try - cos it will take your self respect away. If their relationship comes to a natural end then be brave and ask her out. Maybe she will say yes, maybe she will say no.

    In the meantime, do the right thing and try and treat them like good friends, even if you feel jealous. And do lots of other things that will keep you busy and take your mind off it. Hang out with other mates, if you get out more, it helps!

    [This message has been edited by RedEd (edited 30-06-2000).]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by RedEd:
    Sorry mate. You can't change things.

    There's nothing that feels worse than being in love with someone who doesn't love you back. But take it from me, you can't make her love you, and you shouldn't even try - cos it will take your self respect away. If their relationship comes to a natural end then be brave and ask her out. Maybe she will say yes, maybe she will say no.

    In the meantime, do the right thing and try and treat them like good friends, even if you feel jealous. And do lots of other things that will keep you busy and take your mind off it. Hang out with other mates, if you get out more, it helps!

    Gee, thanx, Ill do that
    Ive already got interested in a girl called sara and I think she likes me <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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