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I need some advice. I am 19 years old, approaching 20 and still virginal (huh!)... I am told that I am good looking and I have many female friends, yet I am terrible at picking up the small signals and glances that women apparently give me (or so I am told by some good friends)....
There's a girl I like at the moment but if I get talking to her, I can speak to her in a friendly kind of way yet nothing more, if I feel I'm getting close to her, I back off - dunno why. It must feel to her as if I'm totally not interested which couln't be further from the truth!!! I guess I'm scared she thinks I'm encroaching on her personal space - is it me or is the whole dating and mating game a lot more complicated than it seems to be made out? Some people are naturals, me I'm not.... Can anyone tell me what to look out for e.g. next time I go out clubbing or pubbing???
Thanks a lot, I don't normally like to rant about stuff but advice would be appreciated!
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There's a girl I like at the moment but if I get talking to her, I can speak to her in a friendly kind of way yet nothing more, if I feel I'm getting close to her, I back off - dunno why. It must feel to her as if I'm totally not interested which couln't be further from the truth!!! I guess I'm scared she thinks I'm encroaching on her personal space - is it me or is the whole dating and mating game a lot more complicated than it seems to be made out? Some people are naturals, me I'm not.... Can anyone tell me what to look out for e.g. next time I go out clubbing or pubbing???
Thanks a lot, I don't normally like to rant about stuff but advice would be appreciated!
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Anyway when i was 15 I was basically the village bike-everyone had rided me.I regret it now I really do. I hate myself for jumpping int o things.
I hope u dont rush into it and a guy i no made his female friend consume alot of alchol and then had sex with her. Never ever take advantage of a girl because it is cruel.If i was u i would keep looking for a girl andf one day ypou will have great, great sex with a woman!
Sorry to ask but maybe you are loooking for the wrong person. Maybe you are gay - that is not a problem many gay people are dead gorgous and hunky and if u think u r maybe that has been the problem. Lots of luck babe talk to u soon
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Some of us are born confident, shameless egomeisters, while you, me and everyone else were born to be shy, embarassed and useless.
The only way round it is to make yourself be more confident. Don't fear failure, fear not doing anything. Meanwhile, I'm off to my bedroom to avoid human contact.
PeTA