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A Simple Wish

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
I have but one simple wish in life at the moment - it would make my life perfect......

I wish my best friend could accept me for who i am, understand me, not patronsise me or be nasty to me.

I ask you people - is that just too much to ask for? I mean i dont ask for a lot in life. I consider this to be a small thing for a lot of happiness.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    So find yourself a best friend who can.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Black_Knight:
    <STRONG>So find yourself a best friend who can.</STRONG>


    I cant - shes my best friend - i dont want any other best mate and i couldnt live without her.

    *quite a short answer for you black knight - you feeling ok? *
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by buglove:
    <STRONG>
    I wish my best friend could accept me for who i am, understand me, not patronsise me or be nasty to me.

    I ask you people - is that just too much to ask for? I mean i dont ask for a lot in life. I consider this to be a small thing for a lot of happiness.</STRONG>

    If she cant accept you as who you are, then she shouldnt really be your best friend. friendship never works in just one way.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey buglove - have you spoken to your best friend and told her you feel like this?maybe she doesnt realise how much she is putting you down as she has been doing it so long without you speaking out about it, or why don't you treat her how she treats you maybe she will wise up and realise best friends and precious.

    i have been in a similar situation and i know at the moment you think it would be the end of thw world to loose her but trust me - it is alot easier in the long run and you do find better best mates! you don't need to stop bein friends with her just spend more time with other people and less time with her- maybe then she will realise she should be nicer to you!!!
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey, I understand you there. I often feel like this when it comes to my best friend. Actually quite a lot of friends. They always expect you to be there for them and they are not always there for you.Just take you for granted. It sucks big time! I keep thinking about finding some new ones.Maybe I will when I go to Art College. Perhaps thats what you need to do. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    what you have decribed doesnt really sound lie afreind at all , let alone a best one
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no ..... most of the time shes really nice but she doesnt like showing emotions and so doesnt like talking about things.

    Shes not a nasty person - and i do tell her shes been nasty and she says "oh i was just pissed off"
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