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Love triangle (serious)
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Hey im near enuf 17 and im goin out wid this girl, but i like this other girl who is 14!. Im in yr 12 at school and shes in yr 9, and i like her more than my girl friend but im worried about how people would react to us if we got together, i dont hav ne thin sinister planned i really like her i was wonderin if ne ones go tne advice they cud give me on wot to do next. Thanx in advance
Ben
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Remember that in future, okay? <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
anyway, don't kidd your gf, if you like the other girl more go out with with her. The age gap isn't particulaly big between yrs 9-12, but if your friends don't like it then you'll have lost 2 girls.
there is only 3 years(maybe less)between you and this girl and you must know other people around you have have age gap relationships - it seems like a big deal now but trust me when you get together people just see you as a couple they don't think about what year you are in! ( trust me i have been there and i have friends who are together with age gaps) so if you don't have a problem with it what does it matter if other people do!
but with regards to your current girlfriend- don't just drop her now you like this other girl, let her down gently there's no need to make this situation worse!
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you have to accept that some days your the pidgeon and some days your the statue[*]null
If you don’t love someone you shouldn't be with them, it is not fair on your GF so just let her down gently.
So, I guess this is my opinion too...way too many people would have something to say about it.... I mean, just think about it...she'll be doing her SAT's and u'll be doing ur A Levels.....ummm yeah.
So, take my advice and leave ur "little friend" where she belongs ....with all her year 9 mates.....
Beth xxx <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
as with ur gf, u shouldnt b with her anymore she deserves much better! <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
(cant spell!)
[ 01-04-2002: Message edited by: Fairy ]
hmmmmm back to the point
yah man, 17 - 14 makes it worse cause ur over the age of concent and she aint, so ur probably gonna look like adirt old man, or worse, be branded a peodophile for the rest of you time at school
but if you thinks its worth it gettin ur rocks off with a 14yrold then go ahead..