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Pathetic or Realistic (weird subject :) )

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
I ended it with my boyfriend of 1 1/2 months about a week ago.
We have agreed to stay friends but i dont know if i want more than that.
There wasnt a real reason why i split from him - well there was - i have loved someone else for 4 years. I will never have this person and i want to get on with my life.

Before any one says it - im not using him to get over the other person.
Hes a great guy and made me laugh and feel special. But he smelt of B.O and had bad breathe often! ooooo how pathetic.

Anyway - should i try giving it another go?

Comments

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Think back to 'why u dumped him', and ask yourself if your willing to backtrack.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by 'SeaShihtzu':
    <STRONG>Think back to 'why u dumped him', and ask yourself if your willing to backtrack.</STRONG>

    Well i dumped him because a)he had bad breathe b) smelt of b.o c) i didnt love him d) i love someone else much more deeply and always will do e) i cudnt b botherd with a relationship
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That sounds like a definate 'don't go back there' to me
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yup, i think you've answered your own question there honey <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think it would be best to move on, and be with someone who makes you more happy and who does not have such health problems that effect you a great deal. After all, it couldn't of been that great a relationship if you were not able to talk to him and help him with his 'health' problems.
    Good luck finding that special guy!
    He is out there! -x- <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i didnt love him
    there you go then, be with someone who makes you happy <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by go_away:
    <STRONG> there you go then, be with someone who makes you happy <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    he made me happy - just because you dont love someone doesnt mean they dont make you happy
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    But you were complaining about his BO etc.
    You seem to be putting up quite a fight against us thats saying find someone else, if you want him, then go back out with him. if not don't, but we can't make that decission for you. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well its a bit of a crap excuse tho - bad breathe and b.o! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by buglove:
    <STRONG> But he smelt of B.O and had bad breathe often!</STRONG>

    i bet he thought YOU had bad breath if you drink marmite!! only joking!
    <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think you know that you dont wnat this guy the bad breath b.o etc being in love with someone else how did you end up going out for 1 n 1/2 years??
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    shiit sorry that said months not years! ignore me!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    still dont go there!! wait for someone who you truley wnat to be with to coem along
    someone with good personal hygiene <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Deeby Do, surely you could have edited your first post, and not posted another 2???
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i very much doubt il find sum1 i truly want to be with. Well i know who i want to be with but it can never happen.
    So im either destined to a life of loneliness OR a life of hiding my feelings and lying.....
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *ali*:
    <STRONG>

    i bet he thought YOU had bad breath if you drink marmite!! only joking!
    <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    I dont drink it! i have it on toast and in sarnies! DURRRRRR
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by buglove:
    <STRONG>i very much doubt il find sum1 i truly want to be with. Well i know who i want to be with but it can never happen.
    So im either destined to a life of loneliness OR a life of hiding my feelings and lying.....</STRONG>
    Are you going to enlighten us on which one you're going to choose?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well after thinking about it - either way i will be lonely. so i guess the lonely root! <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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