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How Many Times Have You Been In Love?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hehe! I think love is very strange. Imagine if it didnt exist at all. <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmmmmm there would be no need for message boards like this!! wow my life would be so much simpelr - but also lonlier <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> arhggg whers the comprimse!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i have been in love twice and there are two totally different kinds of love and im still in love with both of them. <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    it's all very complicated so i'll try my best to explain

    1) my ex (only by a few days) he showed me what is was to love someone for everything the whole person and in him showing love to me he made me more confident in myself. we was going out for 5 months but i only realised i was in love just over a month ago. when we first started getting serious we both said at our age we didnt know what love was we was too young to understand the concept. but as we got closer together we realised something was happening and it wasnt lust any more it had grown i was sad if i hadnt seen him for a day but happy again within seconds of seeing him.

    2) this is a total different kind of love it a person that i can probably never fully love as they live so far away from me. it's like a friendship love but it goes alot deeper and if he lived here with me or i lived up ther with him it would be LOVE. but it cant so in away i stop myself from feeling more for him but i cant stop that little it bit more than friendship.

    sorry if i bored you with all of that just need to get some stuff of my chest after the past few days ive had <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    love is a great thing when everythings good but when everything is bad in the realationship or the relationship ends and your still in love it's horrible
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I thought I'd been in love several times before the first time I truly was.

    I have truly been in love twice.

    The first love lasted almost five years, but she felt unready to fully commit, and wondered what parts of life she might have been missing.

    The second lasted 12 years in all, though the last two were unrequited love, and horrible.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Twelve years? my gosh!
    Unrequited love is the worst though. That was my first (and only) love. The funny thing is, my head tells me I'm over him, but my heart can't bring itself to believe that. I see him sometimes, walking in the high street, and it all comes flooding back. At 15, it seems silly but I don't want to be in love, lust or anything else ever again. I just don't want to experience that hurt. I honestly don't think I could handle it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Tashmania,I understand completely how you feel! I get that that the whole time. In particular with the first guy I was in love with. It is so annoying seeing people who you really like and cant have. I have been single for quite some time. It is annoying, but then I often think can I really deal with a relationship and the possibility of falling in love again. It sucks! <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    never, yet
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    once but it ended in disaster when he told me he was gay! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Awww! Hun, dont worry! About half of my ex boyfriends seem to be a bit gay. I nearly always seem to pick the gay ones. <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    theres plenty of us red blooded males left <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yes I might say that I have fallen in love..once before...I had a relationship for eleven months and I thought it would never end..I was so happy I loved my guy. now that things are over with him and have been over for about a year...well lets just say the break up was harsh. We just started talking again..love sucks but then it brings you closer well at least in my opinion <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Fairy:
    <STRONG>Tashmania,I understand completely how you feel! I get that that the whole time. In particular with the first guy I was in love with. It is so annoying seeing people who you really like and cant have. I have been single for quite some time. It is annoying, but then I often think can I really deal with a relationship and the possibility of falling in love again. It sucks! <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>


    I hate seeing people and knowing I can't have them. It just takes the piss! Oh well. My mates continually try and set me up with male friends. They mean well bless their hearts, but I don't know if I want to be in a relationship.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sometimes I really want a boyfriend again and other times I just think whats the point it will only end in heart break. But maybe its better to go out and find a guy rather than chatting to northern freaks lol. <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Fairy:
    <STRONG>Sometimes I really want a boyfriend again and other times I just think whats the point it will only end in heart break. But maybe its better to go out and find a guy rather than chatting to northern freaks lol. <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    Me and 3 of my mates were having a 'girlie chat' earlier on today. Out of the 4 of us, only 1 of us is attached. The single ones all agree with that 1st sentence you wrote in the above quote. And the second sentence obviously! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i havent been single for so long the hole prospect of it seems kind of daunting
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by xx deeby doo xx:
    <STRONG>i havent been single for so long the hole prospect of it seems kind of daunting</STRONG>


    Trust me darling, once you are, you get used to it PDQ (Pretty Damn Quick) <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    awwwwww, is that from experience??
    when me and my girlf split for a week it was hell not being with her it felt so wierd when i was single with out her i wasnt bothered but to ahve loved and then lost its so much harder.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by xx deeby doo xx:
    <STRONG>awwwwww, is that from experience??
    when me and my girlf split for a week it was hell not being with her it felt so wierd when i was single with out her i wasnt bothered but to ahve loved and then lost its so much harder.</STRONG>

    Yeah it is from experience <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> O well, never mind. Have resolved to be upbeat about status. (Yeah right!)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    there are good guys around some where, they just dont know how cool you are yet
    *hugs*
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LOVE. wat can i say ..bittersweet feelings and make you miss that person (when the person not around) and smile or happy when the person is beside you

    The feelings of heart-broken is more worse ..can make u cry or depress and thinking wat did u do wrong that make this happen.

    Well ..i have been through it and have fallen in love twice ..and now i am very happy with the one i have now .He is my Mr.right.
    <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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