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Insulting the man you love

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
I do love my BF I really do but I keep on insulting him for no aparent reason. This isn't new I know it may sound strange but I've always insulted guys I like. Anyone else like this?
They aint the worst insults I could come up with, I insult myself even more and that bothers him more than when I insult him.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Do you ever compliment him? Or just insult him, cos if you don't then thats pretty dangerous. Anyway its well known that you can only love others once you learn to love yourself, and as you keep insulting yourself then you obviously don't...
    be carefull.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I do love my BF I really do but I keep on insulting him for no aparent reason. This isn't new I know it may sound strange but I've always insulted guys I like. Anyone else like this?
    They aint the worst insults I could come up with, I insult myself even more and that bothers him more than when I insult him.

    I used to do that around guys I was interested in all the time. Then a friend of mine pointed out to me that the only reason I did it was because I got so damn nervous around anyone I fancied! Think about it...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you dont love yourself it could be your subconscious trying to drive away anything giood because you feel, deep down, that you dont deserve good things. Tray and explain to him that you dont mean it, and try to bite your lip if you feel bad things coming out of your mouth.

    I hope he understands, but its a problem you need to address quickly. It says more about how you see you than how you see him. Good luck <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thank you this helps. I do compliment him, I'm always saying I love him. I just hate upseting him and I know I am, I just gotta try harder to like myself I guess. Thank you!
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