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Are there an decent, caring, honest and "normal" women left in London?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru

Why is it impossible to meet someone nice?<P class="body">I am so disillusioned with women in London. It seems impossible to meet someone who is 25-30, romantic, caring, down to earth and fun - who is slim and attractive!<P class="body">It seems they are eiter all married, in long term relationships or just want to play games and I'm so fed up with it!<P class="body">Maybe someone can prove me wrong - but I have to say that I am very dissillusioned with it all! And that's pretty sad, don't you think?<P class="body">:-(<P class="body">Alan

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Get a cat or a dog and save time, money and heartbreak.<P class="body">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by DuvetHog:
    Get a cat or a dog and save time, money and heartbreak.<P class="body">
    <P class="body">Yeah, but call me a fool, I actually like the human interraction and conversational bits.... :-)<P class="body">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You mean you don't have conversations with cats and dogs?<P class="body">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Never mind about women! Are there any decent men in the same categories in London? I think not. Not when they're either all engaged or in long-term relationships or just don't want to settle down.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by saml:
    Never mind about women! Are there any decent men in the same categories in London? I think not. Not when they're either all engaged or in long-term relationships or just don't want to settle down.
    <P class="body">Not true! I've got loads of male friends who are single, sensible and available. Of course, none of them want to settle down though...<P class="body">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There is at least onbe such girl - I am only a bit too young to fit your criteria! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"><P class="body">My parents always tell me that when they were young, it was always the girls who were blamed for wanting to find the right man and settle down. And now it the men who are trying to find someone and complain that us girls are too independent (or taken ...).<P class="body">And on top of that it is now more accepted to be bisexual, and I know that this is my reason for not tying myself down with one partner - I would feel that I need to restrain myself, effectively denying myself of half my sexuality. I thus prefer to have a meaningful relationship with a small group of people. And I know several other people (mainly girls BTW) who feel the same and act the same.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by RachaelHolmes:
    romantic, caring, down to earth and fun - who is slim and attractive!
    <P class="body">Why do people have to be slim to be attractive?
    You narrow minded git !!!
    <P class="body">Why is expressing a preference narrow minded? I never said anything about non-slim people being unattractive - simply that I prefer to be with someone who is slim.<P class="body">Preference = a choice - my choice!<P class="body">Perhaps you have a complex about your size?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by saml:
    Never mind about women! Are there any decent men in the same categories in London? I think not. Not when they're either all engaged or in long-term relationships or just don't want to settle down.
    <P class="body">Well, I wouldn't have written what I did unless I was demonstrating that I offer similar qualities!!<P class="body">Without wanting to sound obvious, you have just echoed my own sentiments....<P class="body">You can draw your own conclusions from that........or you could email me back!! <P class="body">:-)<P class="body"><P class="body">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If I was you I would just go out and have fun and if something happens it happens and that is nice, and if not well who cares cos you are having fun ( but maybe that is cos I am only 21). Ultimately desperation is THE biggest turnoff, so the trick is not to care. A tough trick, but damn worthwhile.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by SpikeIsland:
    If I was you I would just go out and have fun and if something happens it happens and that is nice, and if not well who cares cos you are having fun ( but maybe that is cos I am only 21). Ultimately desperation is THE biggest turnoff, so the trick is not to care. A tough trick, but damn worthwhile.
    <P class="body">
    Who said anything about being desperate? It's more a case of being fed up!! I go out and "have fun" 4 nights a week! That's not a problem! Meeting someone with similar qualities to me is a problem (or seems to be) and that's why I am disilusioned - not desperate!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hiya i'm a 16 year old londoner. too young for you but give me a few years!!! the future of our city is bright!!!

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Alan, you sound too cute and far too good to be here shaking your thang. I like older men for good reasons, mainly cause they can string a few words together and have a bit of life they can share, know what I mean?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by MyNan'sPants:
    Alan, you sound too cute and far too good to be here shaking your thang. I like older men for good reasons, mainly cause they can string a few words together and have a bit of life they can share, know what I mean?


    Well thanks! Just being myself I guess! Email me if you want to chat! :-)


    Alan
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Alan london:

    Well thanks! Just being myself I guess! Email me if you want to chat! :-)



    Alan mate, I'm a Mancunion and if you want a girl to settle down with then get your backside up ear. They are gaggin for a bloke like you! Well if not I hope you find a girl that will meet your needs!
    Good luck mate!

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Cheers for the positive thoughts!

    I don't know what I'd do without all you good people.

    Now go out there and spread the word - "ALAN LONDON IS A LOVELY BLOKE, SO COME ON GIRLS (WHO FIT THE AFOREMENTIONED DESCRIPTION) GET HIS EMAIL ADDRESS FROM THE PROFILE BUTTON ABOVE, SEND LOTS OF LOVELY INVITES TO MEET HIM IN THE PUB" <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Only DREAMING.... ERR I mean kidding! (although I won't object to a few......)



    Alan
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know exatly what you mean, im only 16 but i really want to settle down by like 20 and in london there are no sign of nice caring decent NORMAL girls left. Where are you all? lol

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well I am not from London, however I consider myself to be a decent person, who has a wicked sense of humour.

    I know it is hard to find Mr or Mrs Right as I have been looking for sometime, however I do not give up hope.

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