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can anyone relate? need advice

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Hello.

I am completely obsessed with this friend at school. I just have the biggest crush on him and can not stop thinking about him. It's gotten so bad that i actually want to go to school so i can see him <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; and thats just @*#$!ed up!. Unfortunatly we only share 1 class together. I don't know if he is interested or not, but in class we do kinda lean against each other (like legs totally pressed against each others and he doesnt care about this), but maybe he is just very secure with his sexuality.
I am becoming so depressed, most days when i came home and on the weekends. It's only gotten this bad the past few weeks.
I would arrange things to go places or something but he lives a long way away from everything and is pretty unsocialable.
He doesn't have the internet so i cant chat to him on there... blah blah blah etc. etc. etc.

Are there any suggestions? How can i make myself better friends with him? Or maybe i should just try to get over him (ive tried buts its so hard). Id rather the first idea but I don't know if it would be for the better.

and well is this obsession normal?

Thanks guys

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't worry, it sounds all normal to me <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; Try talking to him a bit more in class and ask if he wants to hang round with you at break or something. Maybe once you get to know each other more he may open up and suggest seeing each other out of school <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Bobbly900, im guessing ur a guy too aswell, if im rite then be careful, cause kids can be cruel etc
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey heeeeeyyy, another Aussie! someone fetch Turtle!

    sounds like a normal teen crush. perfectly usual. sadly things like this are rarely reciprocated (life's tough, we've all been there), but there's no reason why you can't talk to him and become friends. ask him for help with work, or chat about recent happenings in the school or town, or something.

    good luck <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    Confidence is the feeling you sometimes have before you fully understand the situation.
    - Anon
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    this all soundz very familiar!!!
    you have gotta get out there and do some thing about it!!!if your feelings are real for this guy then it will be hard until you get a conversation going.trust me it works!!! when i was 14 i had a massi crush on a guy that was 3yr older than me.i first started off just by saying "hi" then it got into a conversation and now we are best mates.(our relationship didn't work-both wanted different things)we are good friends now and i wouldn't want anything else.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have something like that happening at my school, there's a girl who I really like and I want to talk to her. And if I don't nothing will happen about it. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif"&gt;

    So it's all up to you, and you'd be very lucky to have him talk to you about things first. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/cool.gif"&gt;
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