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circumcision and relationship problems
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you only had it done yesterday give it time!
oh and your bird sounds like a right inconsiderate plonk.
i'm assuming you had the op because of health reasons? she should be happy that you won't have any problems anymore. my ex was circumsized, didn't bother me one bit.
She is getting pissed off with me because she feels that i am ruining her last 2 weeks with her friends because ive had an operation and she doesnt feel like she can go out and enjoy herself.
Better off rid
Well said! :thumb:
what an inconsiderate tart.
fuck her off and enjoy your newly circumsized willy without her! :razz:
1) Your penis is not the problem, I'm sure it's not 'crap' in the slightest. Lots of ladies don't care whether or not it still has it's hat on, I've slept with a couple of circumcised ones, and they're lovely, as are the ones that are not.
2) It has only been a day. Given that you've just had your foreskin taken off, it's going to be sore, perhaps a little swollen, and not entirely pretty, but when were genitals *ever* a work of art?
3) It looks like your girlfriend is looking for excuses to fight. You've told her that you don't mind her going out, and she gets angry. I'm very sure that if you told her she couldn't go out, she'd get angry too. Some people are just too immature to be open and honest when the relationship has run its course, so they pick fights instead hoping the other person will bail out first.
4) You deserve better than her. Anyone who tries to insult a body part after a major/minor op isn't really a nice person, let alone girlfriend material.
5)
Damn right. Plenty of other nice people out there who will you love your penis, and more importantly, the person behind it
For sure, the guys just took them off and went to read the paper in the meantime
Adult relationships are excellent. Go find one .
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being circumcised. To be honest, I prefer circumcised willies Feels much cleaner and all that.
One of my exes was circumcised. He had it done as a child though so it wasn't swollen or anything when I was with him. He often got paranoid about it and I never understood why. He seemed to think that I preferred non-circumcised guys. It actually wasn't the case. It isn't something that bothers most girls. It doesn't really bother me much to be honest.
It will probably take a few weeks to heal to be honest. You've only just had an operation. Your girlfriend should be more supportive. Its not a nice thing for a guy to have to go through. Apparently its very painful.
She sounds like a right self centered cow to be honest. You deserve someone better.
I was done a few years ago. I think I was 21 at the time...
Also, you were only circumcised a couple of days ago ... why on earth did you send her a pic now? Apart from it being far from healed, it must look like a tomato-sauce laden pepperami stick passed though a mangler. Ew! :sour:
If only you had just given it a couple of weeks, it would have looked so much nicer ... :yes:
And as a connoisseur of both the intact and circumcised penis, I can assure you that you have nothing to worry about .. it is just as delectable!
p.s. Four 'smilies' in one post! I need to get a life ...
She may be a bit scared of the circumcision, though obviously that's no excuse to be so mean. It's something new and she'll just have to adjust.
If she doesn't get that she's being really harsh when you bring it up (if you do), then you have a problem.
Hope everything turns out well, including your rather sore parts.
It's hardly an excuse to start being nasty about his circumcision - no mater how 'emotional' she is. It sounds like she has no sound reason to get out of the relationship and is just clutching at straws with this lame excuse ... any woman that really loved her man would consider this minor 'defect' as trivial.