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why wont she? doesnt she care?
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ok, so you guys dont believe in love at my age, im beginning to doubt it too. but my latest ex, well we only broke up to get to know eachother better as friends, but it just doesnt seem to be happening, but we both really really like eachother, but she doesnt seem to say " i love you " or " your fantastic " much.. i just want to tell her it every minute on msn.. but whenever i do it sounds really really pushy. what do i do?
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I do doubt that she was in love with you, and if she wasn't,then she'd probably regret having said it, so saying it more yourself will only put her off more. Hanging out as friends, on the other hand, may remind her of why she liked you in the first place.
As for 'not believing in love at my age'- I fell in love at 17, and still with the same guy. It can work out at a young age (I don't know how old you are though). Our situation is slighlty different though, as he's 14.5 years older than me, so he's more experienced/patient/understanding in relationships than I am, as he's had experience in this field. Anyway, I'm going off track.
Just keep things cool and matey with her
His profile says that he is 13.
If so, he shouldn't worry about things like this at his age. When I was his age, I wasn't interested in stuff like this.
At 13 I was having picnics in friends gardens, can't say the thought of love ever really came to me then.
Same here
Same here, well not the real thing anyway, i experienced that at still a young age you may say at 15, but i am still with the guy now and it definitely is for real.
But 13 ... I don't think it's possible.
Can't you just enjoy your childhood? Why rush into things, just have fun, your young, your a kid, go play in the sprinkler and go to the mall, you can watch pg 13 movies now, that should be the most exciting thing.
I don't mean to demean you, because at 13 I think most people (at least, I did) want to grow up as soon as possible, but I didn't get in my first *real* serious relationship until I was 17. I still think that's quite young and we're taking it one step at a time, though I do love him.
Anyway, go have fun with her! You two have obviously got *something*, but think of it as a really wicked friendship, rather than love, at the moment.