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I have tried to have sex with my bf last night for the first time with use a lot of lube and foreplay. When he try to enter me, I feel like my vagina is stretched to its limit, when he push in a little bit more, I am in a lot of pain and feel like my vagina going to split into two. I thought he already full inside me. When I touch his penis by my hand, found that not even half of the head was inside me. I have to ask him to stop as it look like he is too thick to fit into me. He is 2.3" thick but just adverage in length. He said that is due to he tried the penis enlargement but its only grow thicker instead of length. He had sex before with 2 different girls and both of them feel painful to have sex with him although they are active in sex. I don't think a virgin able to handle this thickness.
I already in a lot of pain not even half of his penis go inside me. My vagina need to stretch more to accomodate the diameter of his penis, I don't think I can handle it. After that, I go to the bathroom and use mirror to check my hymen and it is still intact. Heard that breaking the hymen is the most painful thing when a virgin having sex for the first time. Will it be more painful than stretching my vagina wall with his extreme thick penis? Please help to advise.
My bf going to try again next week. I am worry the pain will be more than what I am facing last night. More pain I have to deal when he stretch my vagina more and also break my hymen. I am really scare and I do not know what to do.
I already in a lot of pain not even half of his penis go inside me. My vagina need to stretch more to accomodate the diameter of his penis, I don't think I can handle it. After that, I go to the bathroom and use mirror to check my hymen and it is still intact. Heard that breaking the hymen is the most painful thing when a virgin having sex for the first time. Will it be more painful than stretching my vagina wall with his extreme thick penis? Please help to advise.
My bf going to try again next week. I am worry the pain will be more than what I am facing last night. More pain I have to deal when he stretch my vagina more and also break my hymen. I am really scare and I do not know what to do.
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he's had a penis enlargement?
I think you can but ive never tried it before lol
I don't think i'll be looking, sure mine disappeared years ago
Yes, He had a penis enlargement. Actually he is already very thick but just adverage in length. He want to increase in length only but finally his length does not increase, his diameter became bigger and bigger. Now I have to deal with the pain cause by his thick size.
The pain I felt is not from breaking of my hymen, my hymen is still intact after check with mirror. Why it is do painful although he have not break my hymen yet? Where the pain is from?
Stretching the vagina wall only come after he break my hymen, that mean my vagina wall have not stretch yet as only less than half of his penis head go inside me. His penis is so thick, will it be very painful for me when he stretch my vagina wall? How the pain look like (compare with something else)?
He probably tried to get one of those pump things that Austin Powers had, but didn't want the shame of buying a penis englarger, so he used a plunger instead.
so haven't you seen his penis?
doubt it.
how can you not have seen his penis? unless he insists that you keep the lights off..
I think she meant.. She wouldn't have believed a penis could be that thick if she hadn't seen if with her own eyes. [/translation]
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anyway i go with the 1 finger, 2 finger, 3.... etc
that way you should already be stretched a bit and his fingers will breay your hymen so thats one less thing to be worried about,
breaking your hymen might not hurt anyway, i know many people that had painless sex for their first time and presume that their hymen was intact before hand
forgive me for stating the obvious, but i was joking