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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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Ok, today i was speakin with a mate about wot females find attractive, an we got talkin about how i wore glasses, an how i thought that they wer a major no no with girls, she sed sum girls can find em attractive, with the whole intelligence thing going on, my glasses arent big dorky round ones, there small an smart designer ones, does it make a difference, ppl say the suit me, but i kinda take this as an insult, wots ur opinion?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dunno bout glasses on a boy, cause im a boy myself. But seeing glasses on a girl just really turns me on, It is a sign of intelligence, and maturity. Two of the main things i like. I like older girls as their more mature, younger ones just dont attract me at all.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Johntrevy:
    I dunno bout glasses on a boy, cause im a boy myself. But seeing glasses on a girl just really turns me on, It is a sign of intelligence, and maturity. Two of the main things i like. I like older girls as their more mature, younger ones just dont attract me at all.


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    it may sound kinda odd or finicky but glasses just make me feel cut off from the person somehow, i like to be able to see directly at their eyes i u know what i mean <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well glasses to me dont turn me on, or turn me off, although i suppose it depends on the person. If they were really geeky then yeah some girls mite be put off, but the ones u described sound fine, glasses can make u look interlligent and yeah men in glasses are still cute!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    If ur really bothered about it u could always look into contact lenses? Iv worn them before, although they take a little getting used to their fine after a while. Just an idea. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; Lxxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    the right girl wont care if uve got glasses or not, she'll find u gorgeous neway. If uve got glasses that suit u then ull look good, and i bet there are girls out there that find u attractive u just dont know it. some girls will like lads with glasses some will prefer them not to wear glasses and some wont mind. my bf wears glasses and i think hes gorgeous with and without them on. so dont worry i wouldnt take that as an insult cos at least uve got glasses that suit u, alot of ppl wear glasses that dont suit them. if i was u id just take it as an insult if ppl started saying they didnt suit u. but there will be girls out there who will like u as u are its there loss if they dont, uve just gotta go out there and find them.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i like my glasses. they give people something to focus on when they look at me, instead of my ugly mug. the suit me, they let me see clearly and yeah, i'd wear them more if i could be assed.

    i dont wear them going out tho, but i dont think it matters.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    i find some guys with glasses really attractive, if they suit the person.
    ive fancied guys with glasses before, it doesnt make me think they're less attractive and you dont even notice them really, if they're chosen specifically to suit you. you shouldnt take it as an insult, it just means youve got the right type of frames for your face <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    the only problem i have with glasses is when light reflects onto them and you cant tell if theyre looking at you. that happened with an ex's mum, she would always come into his room to say goodnight when i was staying there and the lights reflected and argh! and they can get in the way a bit too ive found <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    bu other than that, i wouldnt say they detracted from a person's attractiveness at all <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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