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I'm going to be a Godfather!

B4 he died my mate and his girfriend decided that I was going to be the godfather of his son. Two days ago his girlfriend had the baby and I'm chuffed I just wish my mate was here to see his son born.

Just over amonth ago his girlfriend found him dead in his car after he inhaled lighter gas.

When the baby is cristened I'll be the Godfather. I know it's a big responsibility but I owe it to him and I'm glad they chose me. The baby's named Matthew after his father, one of the best Djs, funniest blokes, and best mates you could have ever had. Cheers mate <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">.

I know a few things about being a godfather but I'm sure all you wise ppl have got some good advice I wouldn't mind hearing. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    u got the accent? the cigar? the mafia henchmen? then ur set <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    nah, that's great news skive. i think it's great ur willing to take on the responsibilty, considering the baby and matthews gf will need someone to be there for them, someone to turn to. that's gonna be ur job mate, to be the best friend u can to them, to make sure they're getting along.

    good luck, and we'll be here if u need us.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    u got the accent? the cigar? the mafia henchmen? then ur set <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    nah, that's great news skive. i think it's great ur willing to take on the responsibilty, considering the baby and matthews gf will need someone to be there for them, someone to turn to. that's gonna be ur job mate, to be the best friend u can to them, to make sure they're getting along.

    good luck, and we'll be here if u need us.


    Cheers mate.

    As soon as I can I'm going to set up a national savings acount and deposit £200 in it. I'll set it up so he can't get it out until he's 18. I havn't seen him yet but I plan to in this weekend.



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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nice one

    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yup. it's also nice that there will be someone else there to never let him forget who is dad was. and that even though he's not there, there's someone who will be there for him.

    good luck, godfather. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive..

    All grown up now mate... quality, congrads and wish the best.. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think thats really lovely <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; Im gonna have a naming ceremony 4 Liam as Im not religious at all and wasnt cristened...I think itll be nice for him to have something like that.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    omg that brought a tear 2 my eye, i think it is soooooo nice, i hope everything goes well for the babys mum, and good luck 2 u!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; Cheers ppl! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;


    Forwards ever, Backwards never - Skive
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Were very proud of you!! Im sure baby matthew will enjoy having u around!!
    Lxxx

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    SkiveSkive Posts: 15,284 Skive's The Limit
    Sorry I know it's a well old post but better than starting a new one + it saves me repeating shit.

    The Cristening was today so I am now officailly a godfather. Just thought I'd let you know. I was sooo nervous today, still it all went smoothly but for some reason my nerves arn't proply gone yet.

    I know some of you have got kids (MoK, Lolly) so it probly wont seem like such a big deal but trust me it is to me cos responsibility is a word I'm not really familiar with, but that I think is changing.

    I've remained pretty close to Kate (my mates girlfriend) so I'm sure I'm gonna see lots of her and little Matt in the future. I'm finding it hard already cos I don't really have a clue what to do, but I hope to be there for her as well as him specially as he aint got a real dad!

    I've got the biggest grin on you ever seen!
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    A weekend wasted, is not a wasted weekend! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/nogood.gif"&gt;


    [This message has been edited by Skive (edited 27-09-2001).]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Good Luck mate. You should like you're gonna be a really good Godfather to lil Matt.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wow, that's so cool.

    BTW, how old are you?
    I'm 17 and would love to be a Godmother type person.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey, well done mate <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Both mum and baby are lucky to know you, congrads to yall. Let us know how they get on!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just turned 20 <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; getting old now

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think its really good your gonna be a godfather i'm a godmother to my little brother.
    I'm sorry to hear bout your mate
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