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Am I a bitch for doing this?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
This guy, had a girl hanging all over him, and I decided to go hit on him, just for a joke, and because my friends were telling me to. Well, he gave me his number and she broke up with him right there, and everyone there was like you're such a bitch, you weren't supposed to break them up, just joke with them. Now I feel SOO BAD!! What should I do, and am I a bitch?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think the guys a bit gullible and extremely thick. hardly ur fault, u were having some fun. however, maybe next time it would be good to remember this event and realise that fun for u isn't always fun for other people <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I never thought he would actually give me his number because he looked like he was loyal!! I guess I'm just soo... so..what's the word..IRRESISTABLe. Haha, Just playing!

    [This message has been edited by [*cRimSOnCoLUmbiA*] (edited 27-06-2001).]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by [*cRimSOnCoLUmbiA*]:
    I never thought he would actually give me his number because he looked like he was loyal!! I guess I'm just soo... so..what's the word..IRRESISTABLe. Haha, Just playing!

    [This message has been edited by [*cRimSOnCoLUmbiA*] (edited 27-06-2001).]

    yeah, right <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;


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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i wouldn't say you're a "bitch" but you have a mean sense of humor crimson, that was a pretty evil joke you played.

    but this guy got what he deserved though, and in the end you probably helped that girl see this guy for exactly who he was.

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by [*cRimSOnCoLUmbiA*]:
    I decided to go hit on him

    You decided to do what? Sorry, not quite with-it today <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by wildchild:
    You decided to do what? Sorry, not quite with-it today <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;


    go and flirt with him and stuff <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    "That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
    ~ Nietzsche
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by wildchild:
    You decided to do what? Sorry, not quite with-it today <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;


    Ya' know, went and started flirting with him, got his number, that kind of shit.

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    yeah, right <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;



    You know you want me. JUST KIDDING!! JUST KIDDING!!



    [This message has been edited by [*cRimSOnCoLUmbiA*] (edited 27-06-2001).]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by [*cRimSOnCoLUmbiA*]:
    started flirting with him, got his number

    If he gave you his number because you were flirting with him then it's his fault his girlfriend broke up with him, not yours. He obviously didn't have the respect for her that he should have had.

    Like Calvin says, you've just shown the girl how precarious the relationship really was. Sure it wasn't a particularly nice joke to play, but it could have been anyone who showed this girl that her boyfriend wasn't as loyal as she'd like to think. You just speeded things up.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by [*cRimSOnCoLUmbiA*]:
    [BJUST KIDDING!!

    [This message has been edited by [*cRimSOnCoLUmbiA*] (edited 27-06-2001).][/B]

    pah

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by wildchild:
    If he gave you his number because you were flirting with him then it's his fault his girlfriend broke up with him, not yours. He obviously didn't have the respect for her that he should have had.

    Like Calvin says, you've just shown the girl how precarious the relationship really was. Sure it wasn't a particularly nice joke to play, but it could have been anyone who showed this girl that her boyfriend wasn't as loyal as she'd like to think. You just speeded things up.


    So then, I did her a favor!! Okay, because her friend is threatening me, so I'll just point that out to her.
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by [*cRimSOnCoLUmbiA*]:

    So then, I did her a favor!! Okay, because her friend is threatening me, so I'll just point that out to her.

    her friend shouldnt be threatening you. apart from that being like, illegal <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; its nothing youve done. if the guy was willing to dump his gf for you just coz you were flirting with him, then its him thats a twat. and then gets off the hook and gets all her friends to be after you instead? yeah you shouldnt have done it but its not your fault he broke up with her.

    "That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
    ~ Nietzsche
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Evil woman!!

    Only users lose drugs
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Lord of Little:

    Evil woman!!


    I'm evil?!?! We were just having a contest, it was just something stupid, I never expected him to give me his number. I just wanted to try!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    The pure, undiluted spirit of evil.

    Tut.



    Only users lose drugs
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    i think the guys a bit gullible and extremely thick. hardly ur fault, u were having some fun. however, maybe next time it would be good to remember this event and realise that fun for u isn't always fun for other people <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;


    well put xxxxxx <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Lord of Little:

    Evil woman!!


    well, i feel for the poor girl who got dumped, but i guess we have to keep in mind breaking them up was not crimson's original intention <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    u shouldnt mess with ne one elses man even if ur are jokin cause thats not sumthin to play around with ... so next time think twice before u joke around
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